6 key points to maintain self-control, from self-discipline to freedom
Self-control is the rudder of life, enabling the boat of your life to avoid reefs and whirlpools and never be destroyed.
Self-control is the guide to happiness in life.
01. Maintain self-control at all times
When faced with a crisis, self-control can help people stay calm.
In daily life, self-control allows people to move directly toward their goals.
This is true for ordinary people, and even more so for leaders.
Good self-control is an essential quality for leadership.
To some extent, self-control means a good reputation.
02. Getting rid of anger and self-control will be easier
“All human suffering is essentially anger at one’s own incompetence.”
Anger is more of a victim mentality that leads to blaming others.
If you want to control yourself, you must learn to forgive and be able to shoulder your responsibilities.
When the problem is solved, the anger will naturally disappear.
03. Three ways to maintain self-control
How to maintain self-control?
First, listen and then think ;
Second, think first and then evaluate ;
Third, evaluate first and then act.
The so-called think twice before you act.
Before doing something, it will be better if you listen, think clearly, evaluate it well, and then act.
In this way, you will not be passive.
04. Maintain self-control after getting off work
Many people present a good image outside, but it is easy to lose control when they return home.
But in fact, the most important thing is the relationship with family.
A good family atmosphere requires a high level of self-control.
05. After listening, ask questions
Don’t rush to answer, and don’t ask questions before you understand.
Caring for others requires listening carefully to what others have to say.
When we learn to listen, more people will like us.
06. Find the work rhythm that best suits you, while respecting the way others work
Mutual respect is a basic human quality.
We can work at our own pace and respect others.
Everyone’s situation is different.
With enough patience, self-control comes naturally.
So, please be patient.
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