A good marriage never emphasizes giving but comes from the cultivation of each other in three aspects

2bebetter
5 min readMay 23, 2024

Some people say that giving is the key to a happy marriage. This is not the case. Overemphasis on giving will only put pressure on the other party and make the relationship breathless. Managing a good marriage relationship is not only a kind of cultivation but also a kind of wisdom.

The ways people got along with each other in the past tell us a truth: a high-quality marriage relationship comes from the cultivation of the following three aspects:

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01. The first practice is to cherish fate and know how to cherish each other.

What does it mean to cherish each other and how to implement it? In my opinion, it is companionship.

Accompanying is the foundation for promoting a relationship between two people. It is precisely in the process of accompanying that couples can better understand each other’s recent situation, observe each other’s emotional changes, and give corresponding emotional value on time.

It is the time we invest in our partners that makes our relationships different from our relationships with others.

Japanese housewife Eiko tells the story of her 65-year marriage with her husband in…

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