You don’t need a reason to love someone, only if you don’t love someone. Whether a middle-aged person’s marriage is happy and sweet depends on whether the other party will give these values.
01. Give emotional value.
“Marry a man, marry a man, wear clothes and eat.” But in married life, in addition to the most basic material protection, women naturally want to be favored, and most importantly, enjoy the feeling of being cared for and taken care of.
Therefore, the best way to maintain a marriage relationship is for the man to take charge of the outside and the woman to take charge of the house. One is responsible for making money and supporting the family, and the other is responsible for looking after the house and raising the children. This is where the happiness of “entrusted to you for life” rises.
When a family begins to have many conflicts, the biggest reason is that the “backbone” of the family has lost its due role and can no longer provide a “shelter from wind and rain”. It is very difficult for a woman to persist if she wants to continue. Difficult.
This scene is not the helplessness and helplessness between husband and wife who “love their misfortune and are angry but do not fight”.
No matter how deep the relationship is, it can’t compete with the squandering and destruction of marriage and family by men over the years. As the saying goes: “I thought that with you, you could protect me from wind and rain, but I didn’t expect that you would bring all the wind and rain.”
In a happy marriage, the husband may be mediocre, not making much money, and not romantic enough, but he is always “family-oriented”. His wife and children are the most important people in his heart, and it is his unchanging mission to protect them throughout his life... In such a family, even if a woman eventually takes on the important task of “supporting the family”, she is still happy with it.
02. Give growth value.
In a truly happy marriage, husband and wife are not only life partners, but also each other’s growth coaches, confidants, teachers, and friends.
In this life, a woman is so happy to meet a man who gives her growth value.
If it weren’t for him, I might have lived in a muddle all my life, sinking into the feathers of life, unable to see the farther sky and the more beautiful world.
If it weren’t for him, they wouldn’t be able to see their potential, and they wouldn’t dare take the challenge of being a better version of themselves.
And a man who is truly good to a woman is like Bole and a thousand-mile horse, achieving each other’s success.
03. Give material value.
“Poor and lowly couples are in trouble all the time.” When a marriage encounters the chaos of real life, it is impossible to live by just “you and me”.
If you want a marriage to last truly long, a strong financial foundation is key.
When a woman who used to be “unconventional” begins to bargain in the vegetable market and linger in front of the discount area, those who once loved her must feel heartbroken and helpless.
Just like in the youth idol drama many years ago, a female university teacher is a goddess in a boy’s heart. However, this goddess is not happily married, and her husband puts all the burden of supporting the family on her. Without her, she who once talked about pearls on the podium like a fairy fell into the quagmire of life, full of exhaustion.
Of course, this boy who had just graduated had not found a satisfactory job. He was also embarrassed and saw her in the same embarrassment several times, shopping for groceries and discounted clothes.
However, when he passed by her door again, he saw the green floral dress that she often wore in the past, which was most suitable for her. The dress was hung on the clothes rack and swayed in the wind, still as agile and ethereal. This scene made this scene always The boy who admired her stopped for a long time.
Perhaps the most direct way for a man to express his love for a woman is to make sure that his beloved woman has enough food and clothing.
However, when a man is no longer willing to devote himself to him, but is willing to push his beloved woman to the forefront of life and enjoy everything she brings without any guilt or change, no matter how strong a woman is, she will not be able to hold on. living.
A truly happy marriage is a “partnership” between two people. At the very least, they must share risks and benefits. What is even more exciting is that men can always “cover the sky with one hand” and give the most overwhelming and challenging tasks to them. Leave it to yourself, leave the relaxation and pleasure to your wife and children.
It is obvious to all how much money you make; if you continue to improve your earning power and hand over every penny to your wife, only such a family will prosper.
Whether a family is happy or not depends, to a greater extent, on whether men can make a difference and be willing to work hard and run for the family. Women will also do their best and use their love to water the flowers of family happiness and beauty.
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