A man who has a family yet takes the initiative to find a woman outside of marriage exposes his true nature.

4 min readFeb 16, 2024

If love is a trade, then trading with someone who doesn’t suit you is like handing over the best card in your hand to someone else for nothing.

Just like falling in love with a married man and starting a relationship with him that is not blessed and recognized, it is plunging your life into an abyss that you cannot climb out of.

This is because a married man who falls in love with you is not really in love with you but for these reasons.

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1. Not sincere with you

A reader asked me in the message:

Like a married man a few years older than himself, the two have been together for several years, the other party also promised to marry their marriage but is slow to honor the commitment, I do not know what the reason is.

Sincerely suggest that readers do not continue to wait, and take their youth to meet the selfishness of the other side.

To put it bluntly, such a man does not love anyone, only love themselves, so they will be irresponsible in their marriages, do betray of marriage;

At the same time, the reader is not sincere and only wants to enjoy the blessings of all, not want to destroy the harmony in front of the state, so that the family life is uneasy.

Born cold man, never really to which a woman heart, no matter with whom, there is their purpose.

What’s more, if a man can even betray his wife, this kind of mutual affection over the years is not worth mentioning, and how to expect to treat you as an exception?

2. Marriage is boring, want to find extra-marital stimulation

One night, when I was taking a taxi home, the driver knew my occupation and initiated a conversation with me.

He said he and his wife have been together for five or six years, due to the time spent together being too long, interesting feelings in the ravages of time, there is no meaning.

He would not go home immediately after work but would go to a nearby hotel because the owner of the hotel was…




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