A man who has a family yet takes the initiative to find a woman outside of marriage exposes his true nature.
If love is a trade, then trading with someone who doesn’t suit you is like handing over the best card in your hand to someone else for nothing.
Just like falling in love with a married man and starting a relationship with him that is not blessed and recognized, it is plunging your life into an abyss that you cannot climb out of.
This is because a married man who falls in love with you is not really in love with you but for these reasons.
1. Not sincere with you
A reader asked me in the message:
Like a married man a few years older than himself, the two have been together for several years, the other party also promised to marry their marriage but is slow to honor the commitment, I do not know what the reason is.
Sincerely suggest that readers do not continue to wait, and take their youth to meet the selfishness of the other side.
To put it bluntly, such a man does not love anyone, only love themselves, so they will be irresponsible in their marriages, do betray of marriage;
At the same time, the reader is not sincere and only wants to enjoy the blessings of all, not want to destroy the harmony in front of the state, so that the family life is uneasy.
Born cold man, never really to which a woman heart, no matter with whom, there is their purpose.
What’s more, if a man can even betray his wife, this kind of mutual affection over the years is not worth mentioning, and how to expect to treat you as an exception?
2. Marriage is boring, want to find extra-marital stimulation
One night, when I was taking a taxi home, the driver knew my occupation and initiated a conversation with me.
He said he and his wife have been together for five or six years, due to the time spent together being too long, interesting feelings in the ravages of time, there is no meaning.
He would not go home immediately after work but would go to a nearby hotel because the owner of the hotel was a woman with high emotional intelligence, and he felt very comfortable chatting with her.
Sometimes, I feel sorry for my wife, but in reality, I can’t control my behavior and spend more time with her.
Marriage is like eating vegetables, if you eat cabbage and tofu every day, you will inevitably eat once in a while when the braised pork, is addictive.
Married men will look for other women, who are nothing more than the wives of the family to feel bored, although not completely give up marriage, but still can not refuse other women to bring their different fresh feelings.
3. Emotionally incapable of self-discipline and unprofessional in the use of emotions
Some people, in essence, is a person who can not control themselves.
Know that some things can not be done after marriage, due to their own relatively low requirements, the moral sense is low or will be in the opportunity to mature, do not do things.
Emotionally undisciplined men do not have their bottom line to abide by in the world.
With such a man together, no matter which woman, will not feel safe.
The most classic image is that of Leo who likes to fool around with other women while his marriage with his wife lasts.
After the loss of marriage, it is even more unscrupulous, encountering a woman who looks good, will take the initiative to start, often organizing all kinds of gatherings, easy to produce extramarital love in the venue, capricious to meet their own emotional needs.
Naturally, emotionally undisciplined men, in other aspects of life their requirements are very low, suggesting that all women, rather than find a marriage partner, but also do not find a marriage partner can not be relied upon.
Life, is in the constant choice, to find the most suitable for their path.
Marriage is one of the results of choice. If you want to have a happy marriage and not go down a path of self-torture, you need to keep your eyes peeled when choosing a partner.
Don’t touch a married man easily, it’s not really like that.
Do not accept a married man for love, regardless of any consequences, the man who loves you, will not give you a mixed with a lot of impurities, not pure enough love.
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