A truly educated person: our temperament will never be greater than our ability!
There are four kinds of people in the world:
First-class people have the ability but no temperament;
Second-class people have ability and temperament;
Third-class people have neither ability nor temperament;
Fourth-class people have no ability and no temperament;
The more powerful a person is, the more self-deprecating and humble he is; the more capable a person is, the more calm he is;
Losing one’s temper is an instinct, controlling one’s temper is a skill;
A bad temper can only give people temporary happiness, but it will bring them long-term pain;
Never let your temper get bigger than your abilities!
1. A bad temper is an obstacle to success.
Impulse is the devil. A momentary impulse can destroy your life and affect the lives of others;
Don’t be impatient in life, learn to control your emotions and restrain your bad temper;
Life is like a long-distance race, the key to victory is not the first burst;
But as for perseverance along the way, a good attitude is very important;
Success often means persevering for one more minute. If you don’t give up in that minute, there will be hope in the next minute;
When you wake up every morning surrounded by temporary sadness and failure, you must have a good attitude to face it;
The biggest obstacle to success is a lack of control over your emotions;
If you are angry, you cannot control your anger, which scares away the people around you;
If you are depressed, you indulge in malaise and waste many fleeting opportunities;
Because the weak let their emotions control their actions, and the strong let their actions control their emotions;
2. Be a strong person in life and not a slave to emotions.
Life is full of difficulties, big and small, and people will inevitably have all kinds of bad emotions;
But we must learn how to vent them properly and regulate our physical and mental health;
If a person has unpleasant things or complaints, don’t keep them in your heart. You can tell your close friends or relatives or cry out loud;
This kind of venting can release the stagnation accumulated in the heart, which is good for people’s physical and mental development;
Of course, when venting, the object, place, occasion, and method must be appropriate so as not to hurt others;
If a person cannot control his own emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, sooner or later he will destroy everything;
If you cannot be the master of your mind, you will inevitably become the slave of your emotions;
3. Never have a temper that is greater than your ability.
Smile to yourself often, appreciate yourself more, have more confidence, and you will naturally have more hope in life;
If you fall, don’t be afraid, don’t cry, get back up, stand up straight, smile, dust yourself off, and keep running;
Face every setback in life, adapt to every ups and downs in life, learn from every failure in life, and use every up and down in life to become a better version of yourself;
Try to give yourself the best mood, balance your breath, and adjust your mentality;
People who complain generally lose their sense of responsibility, because during long-term complaining, such people cannot reflect on themselves and see their problems clearly;
People who have negative energy all day long feel depressed everywhere in their lives, without a trace of a smile on their faces;
If you can’t clean up the mess, don’t indulge your fickle emotions;
Good tempers are cultivated, and bad habits are cultivated;
The one who can control your temper is the one you love; the one who can bear your temper is the one who loves you;
If you’re right, you don’t need to lose your temper; if you’re wrong, you have no right to lose your temper;
Please remember: Your temper should never be greater than your ability.
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