If a woman suddenly becomes beautiful and has a gentle face, there must be no escape from this reason.
1. Know how to love yourself and respect your own feelings
“Those who give joy to life must be those who themselves are filled with the joy of life.
A person who does not love himself will neither be a lovable person nor can he truly love others. “
A woman who knows how to love herself can fully respect her own feelings, fill her life with joy, and love others bravely.
Anna, 57, like many traditional women, spent the first half of her life working hard at home and in society.
Love her children, love her husband, take care of her family, and educate your children and grandchildren.
But my husband is not gentle and considerate, and all expenses in daily life are Split the bill.
When Anna was not working, she was scolded by her husband. In simple daily interactions, she was often criticized by her husband for trivial matters.
Her love and dedication to her family were taken for granted, but what she got for her devoted family was endless pain and loss.
So she decided to hit the road, driving alone on a trip, sharing delicious food with fellow travelers she met, and wandering around in the natural scenery to gain infinite satisfaction and healing.
Anna, who originally looked sad, now has gentle eyes and a peaceful face.
Holding the steering wheel in her hands, she also controls her own destiny. This time her love flows to herself.
Your lover may not get an equal response, but loving yourself must be the best nourishment.
Only when people fully respect their own feelings can they be illuminated by the sun, nourished by the rain and dew, and bloom in spring.
Knowing how to love yourself is not only for yourself but also for the people around you. Only a person who knows how to respect his own feelings can love others freely.
“Look, I’m not going to please you with my appearance.
There is no part that needs your mercy.
I love the rust in my body more than I love you. “
Life is a long road, and we will always meet many different kinds of people, but they are just passers-by in life.
Only by not pleasing others can you live your own life; only by not caring about other people’s opinions can your life be relaxed and free.
A woman who knows how to love herself and fully respect her own feelings will become more and more peaceful and gentle and charming.
2. The core is stable and not affected by others
“Everyone must have a core of determination, so that it will not be easily blown away by the wind in the universe.”
The stability of the core is a person’s core belief, which to a large extent determines how far a person can go and whether he or she lives happily.
Along the way, she has always followed her own path firmly, never wavering or being disturbed by the outside world.
The passage of time has tempered not only her brilliance but also her increasingly relaxed and peaceful beauty.
The most vital beauty of a woman comes from within.
The brilliance of the appearance may fade with time, but the sparkle of the soul will always be breathtaking.
As Ali Smith writes:
“The real power is to feel that there is something bigger than your breath alive inside you.”
The real power is not to block others and isolate yourself from the outside world.
But no matter how noisy the surroundings are, always listen to your own voice, always be firm in your heart, have a stable and strong core, and not be influenced by the selfishness and desires of others.
For women, who don’t want to be liked by others, who don’t desire to be recognized by others?
But in the face of a complicated world, there is always something more important worth pursuing, and that is your own heart.
Only by cultivating a stable core can you become strong and comfortable.
When a person becomes strong, beauty and gentleness are just gifts that come with it.
3. Self-reliance, economic independence and dignity
Woolf wrote in “A Room of One’s Own”:
“A woman must have a room of her own and money!”
The words written nearly a hundred years ago are still inspiring today, and illustrate how important it is for a woman to be financially independent.
Economic independence is the basis for a woman’s personal independence. Only by being self-reliant and self-reliant can she gain a foothold and win respect for herself.
Beauvoir said:
“It is through work that woman crosses most of the distance that separates her from men, and only work can guarantee her concrete freedom.”
No matter how society develops, we should always remember that only by being independent can we support ourselves.
Don’t get lost in the honey trap. You must understand that true freedom and respect come from your own strength and independence, not dependence or dependence.
Be self-reliant and self-reliant, don’t be a rose to be watched, grow into a big tree. Only then will life be smooth and beautiful, and only beauty will have the nutrients to grow and flourish.
It is not easy for a woman to walk in the world.
There are too many confusions and frustrations in life, and a life of feathers will stain their beauty with dust.
For those women who suddenly become beautiful and have gentle faces, their burst of vitality does not come from expensive beauty products or exquisite maintenance programs.
Their beauty is their determination and bravery tempered by years of ups and downs.
They are strong yet gentle, relaxed yet peaceful.
May we all live the way we like.
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