Be the protagonist of your own life, not a spectator in other people’s lives

2bebetter
3 min readMar 28, 2024

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I hope,

From now on, I can walk around the world as a flower,

Through the cycle of seasons,

In silence, not decadent, not faded,

Flowers bloom into scenery, and flowers fall into poetry.

Some things, some people, some scenery,

Once it enters your eyes and your heart,

Even for a moment, it is eternity.

Stay at ease in the flashy years,

In the silent passing years, people are as pale as chrysanthemums,

In the vast floating dust, my heart is as pure as orchid;

I hope the years will be peaceful and the world will be stable.

Above others, treat people as human beings;

Before others, you must treat yourself as a human being.

Take out your complaints and bask in the sunshine every day.

Your mood will not be deficient in calcium;

As long as your heart is clear,

There are no rainy days in life.

In memories, there are always some moments,

It can warm the whole distant past.

The only you in the world,

Even if no one knows how to appreciate it,

Also love yourself well.

What really matters is not the years in life,

But life in the years.

When the most important thing for a person is face,

Then he must have lost a lot for this.

Time makes deep things deeper and deeper,

Let the shallow things become shallower.

Smart people are always looking for a good mood;

Successful people always stay in a good mood;

Happy people are always in a good mood.

Brokenness is not the cruelest thing,

The cruelest thing is to step on these fragments and pretend that there is no pain,

Searching stubbornly.

Be the protagonist of your own life,

Rather than being a bystander in other people’s lives.

Only by not forgetting your original intention can you achieve success.

Only through detours,

Only then did I become more convinced of what I wanted most in the first place.

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