A penny stumps a heroic man! When people are in an emergency and have no money on hand, how do they want to meet someone to help? However, at this time, you must understand that some people cannot borrow money. If you don’t have money, don’t ask them to borrow money from the following people. Not only will they not help you, but they will laugh at you and look down on you even more.
The first type: is people who love to show favors.
The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. And some people will always talk about the slightest benefit in front of others, reminding others to always appreciate it. Such people are the kind of people who are difficult to get along with in life. They are not willing to help others in life. They always remember what others owe them, but do not remember that others have also helped them. Therefore, it is best not to borrow money from them. Otherwise, they will have long forgotten your kindness to them. But if they keep reminding you of their kindness to you every day , it will seriously affect your mood and life.
The second type: is people who look down on you.
Those who look down on you and look down on you will not worry about your difficulties or take them to heart. If you ask those people to borrow money, you won’t be able to borrow money at all. Instead, you will be ridiculed and disrespected by them, so why bother? Just try harder to get through this kind of difficulty. Grit your teeth and endure it, and you will eventually get ahead.
The third type: is people who are as addicted to money as their lives.
Change depends on the person. A person who is addicted to money will not lend money easily. If you can afford it, he can still consider it. If you don’t have the financial strength, he won’t even consider it. After all, others will also consider whether the money they borrowed will be returned. Most people don’t dare to talk about things they are not sure about. This is especially true for those who are obsessed with money.
The fourth type is people who borrow money and have to sign an unequal repayment treaty.
When facing someone who agrees to lend you money but wants you to sign an unequal treaty, you must see clearly whether you can sign the treaty. If you can’t sign, don’t sign. Don’t end up with endless troubles just because you are anxious for a moment. Once some treaties are signed, it becomes a bottomless pit. You can afford to borrow it, but you can’t afford to pay it back!
Suggestions for borrowing money: First, be sure to borrow money from people with whom you have a good relationship and are close to each other. Both parties understand each other and treat each other sincerely; second, don’t borrow if you can, and endure the hardship by yourself. Once you can’t pay it back when it’s due, it affects other people’s money, and you feel uncomfortable; thirdly, pay attention to frugality on hand, save as much as you can, and save some money for emergencies. Fourth, whether you borrow money from others or not, you must be considerate of others. Never resent others, even if they are stingy, it is their fault. It’s you who caused trouble for others, and it’s useless to resent others.
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