“Death is not losing life, it is just stepping out of time.”
Death is like a door that separates two worlds.
When talking about the most painful things, one word often comes to mind: separation between life and death.
For some people, just thinking about it, you will never see them again, they will completely disappear from your world, and you will feel a tearing pain in your heart.
There is always a farewell between people. Husband and wife, even if they love each other again, will eventually say goodbye to each other.
This article is written to those who are widowed: Don’t be sad when your lover is gone, live like this.
1. If your lover is gone, live well in his place.
Once, I accidentally broke my foot and was hospitalized. I met a woman about my age.
She was hospitalized because of a car accident. Timely rescue can save a life.
However, there was no anger in the woman’s eyes. The woman’s mother asked the people in the ward to talk to her more and persuade her not to be so depressed and pessimistic but to know how to cherish life.
It turned out that it was not only herself who was involved in the car accident but also her husband.
Her husband stopped breathing before he was sent to the hospital. She cried every day, and no one tried to persuade her.
Until her father scolded her and asked her not to be a coward and not to be a deserter.
She still has a lot to do, she has to help take care of her parents-in-law, and she has to visit places that the man has never been to. You must cherish the opportunity to live and live the happiness of two people, then life will be meaningful.
Women stop crying and become stronger every day.
She began to learn to accept reality and try to realize her lover’s unfinished wish.
If your lover suddenly leaves you, please don’t give up on yourself. You may be in pain, but you must learn to be strong.
Constantly adjust your mentality, make yourself stronger to live, replace him, and live well.
2. Cherish the time you spend with your children and live in the present
The solemn mother in “Spring to Love”, her husband died in a car accident, and her daughter lost her left calf.
She raised her children with strength, bought them a house, and had her career.
Later, she found another husband.
Unexpectedly, the good times did not last long. Her second husband died in an accident, and she lost her lover and support again.
However, fortunately, the children have grown up and can rely on each other to keep each other warm.
If your lover passes away, remember that you still have children. You must raise your children well and support your family.
When two people love each other and accompany each other, one person will always leave first.
Facing the departure of your lover, you will be particularly confused, the pain will not go away, and you will not know how to face the future.
However, you have to slowly accept the reality and slowly adapt to the days without your lover, because there are still children who need your company.
For their sake, we must be strong and not be decadent. This family requires you to do your best to support it.
3. Look away, let go, and let yourself live more abundantly.
Al H. Brown said: “Life is like a market, where people gather but don’t stay for a long time; life is like an inn, where passers-by rest and then leave.”
Except for life and death, everything else in life is trivial.
We cannot decide when we are born, nor do we know when our life will end abruptly.
You don’t have to suffer terribly because of someone’s passing at any time.
When your lover is around, you have loved seriously and enjoyed the beauty of love. When he leaves, even if you don’t say goodbye, you have to face reality bravely.
Time can heal everything. If you can’t forget it, just miss it quietly in your heart.
One day, I will meet the person I want to see again, and all the sadness and pain can be let go.
When your lover is gone, you have to learn to let go and look away, which should make life more meaningful.
Try to fulfill some of your wishes and cherish every minute and every second with the people around you.
Be more open-minded and spend the rest of your life in a free and easy manner. Don’t let down the years, and don’t let down those who love you.
Romain Rolland said: “Life is an endless, restless, and ruthless battle. Anyone who wants to be called a human must always fight against the invisible enemy.”
A partner is someone we can’t help but rely on.
If he leaves first, your world will be like a landslide and tsunami. When you come back to your senses again, you will find that everything is in ruins.
However, don’t give in, don’t be defeated by setbacks and difficulties. In life, there are some paths that you have to walk on your own.
Have the courage to move forward. Life will grow new branches and flowers. The road ahead is still very long.
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