Facts have proven that the following 10 factors “control” your future in this life.

2bebetter
5 min readApr 21, 2024

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As we all know, the right time, right place, and right people determine a person’s life. What does the right time, the right place, and the right people include?

The ancients summed it up in one sentence: one is fate, two is luck, three is feng shui, four is accumulation of yin virtue and five is reading. Six people, seven aspects eight worship gods, nine friends with noble people, and ten health care.

These ten points include all kinds of favorable conditions, favorable circumstances, favorable conditions, and people, which determine the future and destiny of our lives.

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01. One fate— what kind of fate

Heroes are not afraid of low birth status, but if you are not a hero but an ordinary person, you will definitely be afraid of low birth status.

Children from big families can go to good work units as the leaders of the work units are very familiar with their families. Children with no background may not be able to get into a good employer even after graduating from graduate school.

The “original gap” between people cannot be erased in one generation. Especially for ordinary people like you and me (our assets do not exceed tens of millions), the starting point of others is the endpoint that we will never reach in our lifetime.

02. Two Luck — the luck you have.

Being from a good background but having bad luck is like driving a sports car on a mountain road. No matter how good the performance of the sports car is, it cannot be fully utilized.

Being from an ordinary background but having good fortune is equivalent to driving a van on the highway. No matter how poor the performance of the van, it can still drive freely and smoothly.

Luck is basically 50/50 related to your birthplace. People with incredible luck can basically have a successful career before the age of 40. The boss of a certain e-commerce empire and mobile phone empire is a typical example.

03. Three Feng Shui — the environment you are in.

Many people don’t understand, what is Feng Shui. Feng shui is actually a “geographical” concept. The environment of a place represents its feng shui.

04. Four accumulated yin virtues — accumulated virtues.

A master of traditional Chinese culture once said that if you accumulate virtues in each generation, your descendants will naturally become prosperous when they accumulate to a certain level.

Virtue refers to a person’s three views, opinions, character, and pursuits. For those who have correct views, have certain opinions, and have decent moral character, their future is basically bright.

In this day and age, countless people underestimate virtue and think that virtue is a lie. There is no need to think this way. Invisible virtues are the key to changing your life.

05. Five learning and readings — travel thousands of miles and read thousands of books.

“If you travel thousands of miles and read thousands of books, even a commoner can be proud of a prince.”

Traveling all over the country and working hard everywhere, just to add various life experiences. Sit down and think, read, and talk to ancient sages and sages, just to improve your own realm and broaden your horizons.

A person who has tempered himself in the world and has persisted in studying and studying all his life, then no matter how bad his life is, he can still have enough food and clothing, and live in peace and stability for the rest of his life.

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06. Six — Names of parties involved.

During the interview, two people were both outstanding, but one person’s name had an obscure character that the interviewer couldn’t pronounce, so the interviewer asked for the person with a simple and easy-to-pronounce name, but not the person with the obscure character...

The name is very mysterious. As long as you are familiar with ancient and modern history, you will find that 99% of the names of important figures are easy to understand and not too complicated. People with complicated names are either forgotten or unknown to others.

When parents choose a name for their child, there is no need to make it too complicated. It is simple and easy to understand, and it is of great help to the child.

07. Seven aspects — the character and temperament one possesses.

When you think of “phase”, what comes to your mind? appearance. The true appearance is not as simple as appearance but refers to a person’s inner self.

What is covered internally is roughly two points, one is character, and the other is temperament. Your character determines the path you take, and your temperament determines your image.

08. Eight Worshiping Gods — Whether you keep up with the pace of the times.

The general trend of the times is great. Those who follow it will prosper, and those who go against it will perish.

In the face of the times, people have only three choices: either keep pace with the times, stay put, or lag behind the times and be eliminated by the times.

We often say “go with the flow of nature”, the essence of which is to develop following the trend of the times. No matter how the times change, we must adjust our posture in time to adapt to the general environment of the times.

09. A nobleman — Is there anyone who can help you?

With the help of noble people, you will save twenty years of struggle. Without the help of noble people, you may not be able to get ahead in your life.

Noble people are not just those we can meet if we want to. It is precisely because the chance of meeting a noble person is so low that very few people can succeed.

10. Ten Health Preservation — Is longevity long enough?

I like this saying: The winner is the one who lives long enough.

Only with a long life can there be unlimited possibilities. Otherwise, your life will be short and your fortune will be short, and no matter how clever you are, there will be no use for you.

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