In life, we are always affected by the external environment and cannot be calm, mature, and free. You should know that nothing that happens in life is accidental.
So you have to believe that no matter where you go, that is where you should go, experience the things you should experience, and meet the people you should meet.
Everything in the world is subject to cause and effect. If you understand these eight sentences, you will live a happy life.
Don’t be confused in your heart, don’t be trapped in your emotions
If life is a glass of water, then pain is the dust that falls into the glass. No one’s life is always full of happiness and joy. There will always be some pain that will torment our hearts.
We can choose to calm down and slowly let the pain settle. If we keep stirring it, the pain will fill our lives.
Therefore, only by keeping a calm mind and not being trapped in emotions can we not fear the future, not dwell on the past, and live a peaceful life.
Most things don’t go as planned
In life, not everything can go as planned; in life, not everything can go as planned. As the saying goes, “Eight or nine out of ten things are not as planned, but only two or three can be told to others.”
Don’t argue with villains, because it’s not worth it; don’t argue with society, because you can’t afford it; don’t argue with the past, because it’s worthless; don’t argue with reality, because you have to move on.
Because of kindness, we are tolerant; because of responsibility, we take responsibility; because of some reason, we are willing to compromise.
Only by taking life lightly can you be happy; only by taking worldly affairs lightly can you gain happiness.
Know how to give up
If you see through someone, why bother to expose him? If you hate someone, why bother to turn against him? In life, there will always be people you can’t stand, just as others can’t stand us.
A person’s maturity is not determined by age, but by knowing how to give up, how to be flexible, and how not to fight.
Some pains cannot be expressed, not because we don’t feel them, but because we know it makes the same whether we say them or not; those hidden wounds are not because we don’t care about them, but because we know how to slowly repair them.
Choose a simple life
I choose to be kind, not because I am weak, but because I understand that cause and effect are real and good and evil will eventually be rewarded.
I choose to be tolerant, not because I am cowardly, but because I understand that to be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of myself.
I choose to be confused, not because I am really confused, but because I understand: that some things cannot be obtained by fighting, and some will come even if you don’t fight for them.
I choose a simple life, not because I don’t desire prosperity, but because I understand that fame, wealth, and honor are all fleeting, and only by enduring loneliness can one elevate oneself.
Follow your heart and go with the flow
The truth of life is hidden in the dullness. Life begins with your cry and ends with the tears of others. The process in between is happiness.
Life is not perfect, just follow your heart and take things as they come. Roads may be long or short, things may be happy or sad. Simplify your life, make the painting of life colorful, and enrich the book of years!
Take a break when you are tired, dance with the breeze, calm down when you are upset, gaze at the flowers and plants, slow down when you are in a hurry, and smile at yourself.
No one will always accompany you.
Whoever you meet is the one who is supposed to be in your life. This means that no one comes into our lives by chance.
When you go to school, you will meet a group of classmates. You will accompany each other and witness the best and most carefree years of each other’s lives.
After graduation, you will meet a group of colleagues. Even if you change jobs frequently, there are still colleagues waiting for you. Back and forth, many people pass through your life and enrich your life.
But no one will always accompany you. In every process of life, some new people appear by your side to replace others, and the same goes for you.
The only thing that will happen
Whatever happens is the only thing that can happen. What we experience could not have happened any other way, not even in the most insignificant detail.
Whatever happens, it is the only thing that can happen, and it has to happen that way so that we can learn from it and move on.
Whether good or bad, those things will always give us some inspiration and give us a clearer direction in our future life.
Start and end
What is over is over. Life has a beginning and an end, and so do things. When you experience a love affair, it may start well, but the ending may not be satisfactory.
But no matter what, this love has become a part of your life, teaching you to grow and teaching you how to love.
It’s so simple. When something ends in life, it helps us evolve. Enjoy what happened fully because it’s over.
There are still many wonderful things waiting for you in the future. Therefore, we must learn to enjoy the things in life that have ended, let go of them calmly, and move on!
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