how do you know When he wants to love you but also wants to give up on you???

2bebetter
7 min readApr 14, 2024

Nietzsche said:

“The most difficult stage in life is not that no one understands you, but that you don’t understand yourself.”

In the turmoil of love, the most heartbreaking thing is not the regret of not being able to love, nor the helplessness of long-lost love.

But they clearly have love in their hearts, but they don’t want to embrace each other affectionately;

It’s obviously painful and hurts like a knife, but you still have to be cruel and push away the person you love.

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To avoid loss, choose to end early

I read this sentence:

“Perhaps the person who pushed you away loves you more than you think.”

At first glance, it seems a bit confusing, but after thinking about it, it is difficult to understand:

Since you love me, why would you choose to push it away?

A friend recently suffered a sudden and devastating breakup.

Her boyfriend doesn’t understand her motivation and strength and thinks she doesn’t cherish this relationship.

Without warning, the other party sent a unilateral farewell message and then disappeared without a trace.

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