How much a man loves you, no need to try, look at this one time will know!

2bebetter
4 min readFeb 16, 2024

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In this real world, emotions are often elusive.

People’s hearts are like water, emotions like the wind, and how to find that unshakeable love in the storm?

Some people say that temptation is the touchstone of emotion, but the real love, or perhaps no need to test, just walk side by side in the storm, see his choice in times of trouble, you will know the answer to his heart.

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Life always likes to play jokes, from time to time throw out difficult questions, test every pair of lovers. When the sun is shining, love may just be an easy trip, but when the storm comes, love will become a voyage together.

Those sweet words, oaths, and promises, may become pale in adversity, but only firm companionship and selfless support, are the most real models of love.

Imagine, when you encountered difficulties, heart like a knife, whether he held your hand, told you: “Do not be afraid, I am here. These few simple words carry a thousand kilograms of weight.

It means his determination not to leave you during the storm, and his willingness to shield you from the wind and the rain and to face the unknown future with you.

The man who loves you has not only the stars and the sea in his eyes but also the determination to fight with you side by side.

He will not choose to run away or be silent when you encounter difficulties, but bravely stand by your side, and tell you with his actions: no matter how many dangers and obstacles are ahead, he will go forward with you.

This love is not gorgeous rhetoric piled up and become but in the ordinary days of silent accumulation.

It may not be publicized enough, not romantic enough, but it is like a cup of warm water, on the cold winter night for you to bring warmth.

It is not overly embellished and exaggerated, but it is enough to touch the softest place in the depths of the heart.

The love in trouble is the most real love. It does not have gorgeous packaging and intentional show-off, only the warmth of two hearts close to each other.

This warmth comes from his trust and understanding of you. He knows that you are vulnerable and uneasy, so he is willing to use his solid arm to support a sky for you.

He understands your strength and bravery, so he is willing to become the most solid support behind you.

In such a love, temptation is superfluous. Because every choice He makes, every contribution He makes, and every companionship He provides is the best proof of His deep love for you.

His actions are already worth a thousand words, and his eyes already tell you all the answers.

When you want to try to find out how much a man loves you, you may want to look into the details of life.

Look at the way he reacts and chooses when you are in trouble; feel the strength and support he brings to you in adversity; listen to the comfort and encouragement he whispers in your ear.

More than any temptation, these will help you realize the depth of His love for you.

So it doesn’t take much to find out how much a man loves you. When you face difficulties together, his every look, and every action is the best interpretation of his love for you.

That firm choice, that selfless companionship, has transcended words, and become the most sincere emotional link between you.

Cherish this love, because it is more real and deeper than any temptation.

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Love is not a game or a competition. It doesn’t need to be tested to see if it’s true or not, or how deep it is.

True love blossoms in the course of mutual support and growth in times of trouble.

It does not require deliberate pursuit and proof, but only two hearts clinging to each other in the storm, walking hand in hand.

If you are surrounded by such a man, please cherish this happiness is not easy to come by!

Because in this world there is nothing more precious than the love of suffering together, more beautiful.

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