In fact, the real high-class women in the world of love are all very gentle on the surface. On the contrary, the kind of noisy girls, who quarrel with men loudly, and always yell for money, who look fierce, are the little white rabbits in love.
The truly ruthless girls, on the contrary, make people feel that she is as gentle as water, and unconsciously enters the dream she has woven for herself and enters the land of gentleness.
Although this kind of girl speaks softly, her voice is soft, and her expression is very calm, what she says will make you feel that there is no possibility of rejection, and you don’t even dare to perfunctorily respond to her.
In other words, it is to play the pig to eat the tiger, to overcome the hard with the soft, to say soft words, and to do cruel things.
How to do it specifically?
1. When a man does not meet your expectations (such as not preparing a surprise for Valentine’s Day)
“It’s okay, I know you are busy and it’s normal to forget. You don’t have to take it to heart, baby.”
When you say this to a man in a gentle tone and calm eyes, the first reaction of someone who cares about you is to panic, and then ask you “You’re not angry, are you?”
Then you continue to reply, “Why would I be angry about such a small thing? I know you are good to me. I think couples with a good relationship don’t need to celebrate Qingren Festival. If you want to give me a gift dance, you can do it on other days.”
Or: “Baby, if you feel that you have treated me unfairly, you can choose a day to make up for Valentine’s Day.”
2. When you meet a boy you like and you take the initiative to be treated coldly
- If you send a message and he does not reply for a long time, you only need to post a circle of friends, which can be a beautiful photo of yourself, or what you are doing (having fun with sisters, etc.), and wait for the boy to explain, and then reply after an hour or two,
“I think it is very relaxing to chat with good friends, and it is normal to reply late. For example, I just watched a movie with my sisters and forgot about chatting with you.” - If you ask a boy out and he refuses
“Since you are very tired, then have a good rest. When you have enough energy, I will take you out to play again.”
Then when this does not happen, go out with your sisters, and directly refuse him next time he asks you out (in short, don’t agree readily) - If the boy has been ambiguous and has not confessed to you
take the initiative to be cold to him, reply less frequently, and wait for him to find something wrong and ask you what’s wrong recently.
You reply directly: “Hey, I don’t know how to tell you, why don’t we meet in person”
and then after meeting, use all your best moves, have a happy chat, flirt as much as you can, and when it’s almost over, pretend to be sad and say “It’s always so happy to be with you, but this happiness makes me feel insecure, let’s not meet in the future.”
Then don’t look for him again after you go back, and don’t reply if he looks for you unless he takes the initiative to confess.
4. For example, if you are rejected after confessing
“It doesn’t matter, love is fate, I am very open-minded about this, and you don’t have psychological pressure.”
Then when this doesn’t happen next, he will be shocked to see him greet you openly.
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