How to correctly judge your position in your ex’s heart and the possibility of reconciliation
Why is he so cold and heartless? The message I sent was like a bottomless hole. Is he completely desperate about me? Does he have no feelings at all?
No matter it is a man or a woman, two people who have experienced true love together will feel pain and sadness after breaking up. No matter who breaks up, this pain is inevitable. It’s just that the way it is expressed is different. Learn to judge whether the other person still has you in his heart and create the possibility of reconciliation.
How to judge whether the other party still has feelings for you after breaking up?
In a relationship, as long as two people love each other deeply, no matter whether they are men or women, they will feel pain and reluctance when they break up. It’s just that girls usually express it more obviously, while boys usually hide their inner secrets, but some subtle details will reveal their thoughts.
He still maintains a way to stay connected with you.
If the other party blocks you immediately after breaking up, in this case, most likely he still has feelings for you, but because he can’t see a future or hope in reality, he might as well break up with you completely and delete you. In this case, the other party usually has no intention of getting back together.
Of course, I mean to block the other person immediately at the beginning, not after you pester him. If he has not deleted your contact information, it is very likely that he still cares about you.
Second, he will contact you after breaking up.
For example, he may like your post, comment on your Moments, or go to your other social software platforms and check your homepage.
If he can take the initiative to look for you occasionally, no matter what he wants to do with you, he has not forgotten you in his heart. He does this most likely because he has not let go of this relationship.
If you can occasionally find some excuses and reasons to create opportunities to meet each other, there is a high possibility that you can successfully restore your relationship.
You can check to see if he has made the news of our breakup public.
Some people post a status immediately after a breakup, declaring “I’m single and happy”. Is this an announcement to the world? Is your love life starting over now?
In my opinion, this is a very naive approach. If he hasn’t posted anything on social media or told our mutual friends about our breakup, he still has reservations about the relationship. This means there is still a great chance that things will improve between you.
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Generally speaking, what is the best time to save a relationship after a breakup?
Generally speaking, if it is a long-term relationship of more than one year, the time for getting back together after a breakup is generally two to three months. In a short-term relationship of less than one year, the time may be very long, ranging from a few days to a few months.
On the whole, it usually takes about 30 to 40 days to recover from a breakup.
I have received many private messages from my friends recently, telling me that my ex is now very repulsive to me. I have tried to cut off contact and various other methods, but none of them worked. What should I do?
Then I asked the babies first, how long have you been apart? Then some babies answered me that we had been apart for three days. I can understand your anxious mentality.
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