How to deal with people who speak ill of you behind your back

2bebetter
6 min readApr 28, 2024

Talking ill of people behind their backs is a common psychological phenomenon among the masses; it can also be regarded as the result of “social comparison”.

When people compare themselves with people who are similar to them, in addition to seeking a sense of existence, they may also develop feelings of jealousy.

When you consciously or unconsciously show your superiority to the people around you, your subconscious motivation to be superior to others will be revealed.

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