How to properly chase a girl, remember that it is not about pestering her
When a man pursues a woman, it takes a mountain to get her to his side. It means that when a man pursues a woman, he needs to give more.
There are three principles you must know when chasing girls. Don’t miss a relationship because you don’t know anything. Chasing girls is not about brute force, nor is it about pestering. Instead, we must focus on skills and strength, so that we can win the girls’ joy and mutual respect.
01. Respect: The more you respect others, the more you can win their hearts.
Many boys like to be persistent when they start pursuing girls and appear in their lives all the time, thinking that as long as they get used to your presence, they will agree to your pursuit.
This method is not very effective for girls, and it depends on the girl’s attitude towards the boy. If she doesn’t like him, this method will be regarded as harassment.
Don’t be too persistent when pursuing a girl. This is not decent and the success rate is not high. The feelings gained by being humble will not be cherished in the end. The most important thing in a relationship is respect. Only when both parties respect each other and there is no high or low in the relationship can it last long?
There are always boys who think that some of their behaviors are cool, which is ordinary but confident. My little sister met a boy on a chat app, and he said to her right away: “I hope you don’t be ungrateful and be with me right away.” This kind of domineering CEO personality that they think they have is very disrespectful to girls.
You don’t have the strength to be domineering, but you want to pretend to be domineering. It’s awkward and impolite, which gives girls a bad first impression. I think the correct way to pursue a girl is to find a suitable way to get along with each other, get to know each other slowly and don’t rush for success. More importantly, respect the girl’s ideas and don’t impose your ideas on others, which can easily backfire!
02. Responsibility: The more responsible you are, the more you will win the admiration of women
Often, when a woman faces a situation for the first time, she will not know how to deal with it, and she needs someone who can give her advice and make decisions for her. Such a man will make her feel safe, responsible, and someone she can trust completely, and finally she can entrust herself to him.
The word “responsibility” is not only reflected in the loyalty to the relationship but also in whether a man is enterprising. Even if you don’t have good financial ability or a good family background at this time, you should let her know that you have potential and are an ambitious person.
Women are psychologically fragile creatures, and because of this, they are prone to suspicion. If you want to give her enough sense of security, men need to understand women more. The more men understand women, the easier it is for them to get their love.
However, don’t make promises lightly that you will not be able to fulfill for a long time or at all. This will give girls the impression that you are bragging and being unrealistic.
Little girls may usually be attracted by boys’ appearance, but for a girl who needs to find a boyfriend or wants to stay married for the future, we are more willing to find a man who is responsible for life and family, and a man who can make family and friends feel at ease.
Responsibility is not what a boy can do for her, but what he should and must do. Don’t worry that your efforts will not be rewarded. Let go and pursue her, take responsibility, hone your abilities, and you will have unexpected gains in the end.
03. Fun: The more fun it is, the longer it will last
What’s important in a relationship between two people is that they are attracted to each other.
Chasing a girl is not really “chasing”, but an act of “attraction”.
Girls usually have a good impression of boys who always chat with them and bring them happiness every day. Try to let the girl’s thoughts stay on you for a longer time and accompany her through her emotional changes. At this time, a boy who knows how to be moderately humorous, interesting, and graceful is a plus. In a simple life, the sudden appearance of such a boy is a little romantic.
Many boys want to know what skills are to pursue girls, but sometimes personality is innate. Some people are introverted, don’t like to talk, and are even a little slow to react. At this time, you can occasionally show a little simple humor to girls. This kind of humor will make girls feel that although you don’t know how to fall in love, you are very sincere and cute, which will make her want to get to know you better.
Everyone has a different sense of humor, which requires a long time of mutual adjustment. Using a humorous tone to solve a problem in an awkward situation will show high emotional intelligence. However, there will always be boys who regard low-level interests as humor, which will make girls feel resistant to chatting with you. Humor must be appropriate and moderate to last long.
Break her fixed mindset and make her think you are interesting. You can express a sentence in a different way, which may be more attractive to girls, but remember that it can be interesting but not greasy!
You can also pay attention to the fact that if a girl has no interest in you from the beginning, then don’t insist too much, otherwise, it will lead to a situation where you can’t even be friends in the end. Finally, I wish everyone could catch up with the person they want to chase and be together with the person they want to love forever!
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