How we know A man decides to let you go or not love you

2bebetter
4 min readJun 24, 2024

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Love is like snow on the roof.

When the sun shines brightly, no matter how thick the snow is, it will melt away without leaving a trace.

The deeper you fall into a relationship, the more you yearn for eternity, hoping that love can always remain fresh and surrounded by care.

Only those who have experienced separation in relationships will understand that many endings have been foreshadowed for a long time, but they were not aware of it at the time.

When a man decides to let you go and doesn’t love you anymore, one sign of it is no more spending money.

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1. Men are willing to spend money on you because you are valuable.

Love is a very subjective emotion.

When a man loves you deeply, he will feel that you are so perfect. As long as he can stand by your side, it is a great happiness.

He will be involuntarily attracted to you, be obedient to you, and put you first in his heart.

Even if you never ask him for anything, he will want to pay for you and try every means to please you.

He is willing to spend money for you, solve problems for you, satisfy your inner wishes and expectations; create a romantic sense of ritual for you, and hold you in the palm of his hand to care for you.

“If you really love someone, even if you give her the whole world, you still worry that you don’t give enough or that it’s not good enough.”

Men are willing to spend money on you because you are more important than anyone or anything.

You are the center of his life, the treasure he wants to carefully guard.

He loves you, wants to give you all his preferences, and also wants to bring you a better life and more happiness.

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2. When a man stops spending money on you, it’s the beginning of his acceptance.

Since when did men’s attitudes towards you start to change?

Probably, it’s when he refuses to spend money on you.

A man no longer spends money on you because he has separated from each other in his heart and is slowly expelling you from his life.

A man no longer spends money on you because he has separated from each other in his heart and is slowly expelling you from his life.

He doesn’t want to continue to invest in this relationship, and he doesn’t want to work hard on things that have no results. Instead, he examines the development of the relationship with a more sober attitude.

A man will slowly withdraw his attention from you, stop worrying about your affairs, stop taking the initiative to take responsibility and reduce your expectations for him.

When you encounter difficulties and need to spend money to solve them, men will also become more rational and will take their stance and refuse to help you.

When a man decides to let go of you, he will naturally stop making meaningless sacrifices.

From cutting off financial involvement, to slowly alienating attention from you, and fading out of your world, it is like a heavy burden has been lifted.

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3. Men no longer spend money on you because you are not worth it.

If a man doesn’t love you anymore, this relationship has become his burden, and he will try his best to get rid of you.

In his mind, you have become worthless, and continuing to spend money on you is an obvious loss-making deal.

A man no longer spends money on you because you cannot meet his expectations and he feels that what he gives and what he receives is not equal.

Because it wasn’t worth it, he simply withdrew his feelings and stopped investing.

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When you no longer have a place in a man’s heart, he will also reflect it in his actions and attitude.

He will no longer spend money on you, no longer worry about your affairs, and will slowly withdraw his attention and concern for you.

Once a man has decided to let you go, it will be difficult to look back. Even if you feel reluctant to let go, you must make plans for yourself in time.

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