How you dress is how you live your life. A happy life starts with dressing well.

2bebetter
5 min readJun 4, 2024

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Does clothing affect a person’s personality? A netizen discovered that when the same person wears two different sets of clothes, his performance will be completely different.

She observed the same person in the study room. When she was wearing light-colored clothes, her behavior was very quiet and calm.

I spend most of my time reading and studying, and rarely make any sounds;

One day, she put on a black sweatshirt with a large area of ​​golden sequins on the back, which looked as flamboyant and gorgeous as a performance costume.

At this time, she spent more time on electronic devices and made louder and more frequent sounds.

When wearing a T-shirt, you feel very casual and unrestrained; when wearing a skirt, your behavior will be much gentler.

Does our personality determine what kind of clothes we choose, or do clothes shape our personality?

“For people who cannot speak, clothes are a kind of language, a pocket drama that they carry with them.”

The wonderful thing is that clothing is located at the interface between the body and the outside world. It is a part of the body.

It is the last barrier to protect us. At the same time, it is our choice and a mirror for us to show ourselves to the outside world.

Through a person’s clothes, you can see his inner world. From a psychological perspective,

A piece of clothing represents a person’s style and taste, and can also reveal a person’s true personality.

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There are two psychoanalysts in France. When they receive consultations, they will pay attention to the other party’s dress.

Then he analyzed his underlying psychology and desires, and published a book called “Psychological Analysis of Clothing and Wearing”.

On the one hand, people will regard clothes as the spokesperson of their own experiences. On the other hand, the style of clothes and their inner world will penetrate and influence each other.

It can be said that what kind of clothes you wear will determine what kind of life you live.

Every day, we wear different clothes according to local conditions. Wear smart and neat suits when you go to work, and change into soft and relaxing home clothes after get off work;

When traveling on vacation, put on comfortable and casual clothes, and when attending important occasions, put on decent clothes…

They are the externalization of our own positioning, and they are also the shirt for participating in social activities. Especially when facing people we are unfamiliar with, clothes are a silent self-introduction.

“We each live in our clothes.” What kind of person am I? How do I want others to see me?

Through clothes, you can express yourself clearly. Japanese psychology professor Shibuya Shozo believes that people who wear high-profile and bright colors,

They tend to have cheerful and outgoing personalities and tend to be active.

But they are full of uneasiness and uncertainty. To overcome this uneasiness, they like high-toned colors.

This type of person may be far more fragile or have greater emotional fluctuations than others think. They may be overjoyed or sad when encountering small things.

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People who wear low-key colors are more satisfied with themselves, have relatively clear self-positioning, and are less susceptible to external information.

They are emotionally stable and seek stability in their interpersonal relationships, striving to build a stable relationship from the beginning.

Observing life, you will find that many people will change their hairstyle and style when they experience major life changes.

This is because every piece of clothing and every look has a strong emotional color, and our emotions will also penetrate the clothes.

Korean actress before getting married, always dressed in a pure and elegant girlish style and was very approachable.

After the divorce, my style changed drastically. I would wear smoky eye makeup that I had never done before, and wear an aura-filled black suit.

Wearing blue contact lenses, the whole body exudes a sense of independence and distance.

Michelle Obama once talked about her mother in her autobiography: “My mother was never very rich in her life, but she was very clever and handy.

She does her nails, dyes her hair, and can magically turn old socks into puppets.

I can crochet tablecloths with my own hands, and I can also sew beautiful clothes for my daughter with my own hands. “

Even if you don’t have much money, you will use your talents to dress yourself and your family decently.

This attitude towards life is passed on to Michelle’s optimistic belief. From a plumber’s daughter,

She grew up to become a Ph.D. from Harvard University and the First Lady of the United States.

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Romania is the poorest country in the European Union and has the slowest development rate. But even if life is difficult,

Romanians still dress themselves decently and delicately before going out. Old people will wear a hat and bask in the sun leisurely on the street.

The unhurried pace, the classical architecture, and the low-key and decent old man sitting on the bench are a sight to behold.

I have a friend who is in his early 40s and has a child in elementary school. She prefers young and trendy dressing and enjoys taking care of her children.

Others commented: “Are you a sister?” When she looked in the mirror by chance, she suddenly noticed the wrinkles at the corners of her eyes.

With the pearlescent eyeshadow rendering, it seems to be clearer. Look at the cartoon-like hat on your head,

The colorful sportswear suddenly felt very out of place. The youthful vitality on the outside and the mature vicissitudes in the eyes no longer match.

This conflict reflects her unwillingness to accept her age and her unwillingness to face the fact that she has passed middle age.

I just want to always be the little girl in my heart.

The late fashion master and Chanel artistic director Karl Lagerfeld said: “Fashion is fleeting, but style remains forever.”

True style has nothing to do with the times or trends. It is the inner temperament that can exude charm at any time.

To be able to form your distinctive style, the premise is to know what kind of life you want.

I also choose clothes that can express this style and constantly improve my temperament.

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