If a woman asks you to do these three favors, men must hold back! Don’t be “unable to extricate yourself”
Can there be pure friendship between men and women? It is hard to say. Some people say yes, but that is for saints who are not worldly. Some people say no, how can it be possible for men and women to be attracted to each other? But there are men and women in such a semi-ambiguous period, and the relationship between the two is not broken. Anyway, they are always together and do not do anything out of line. In the popular and popular words now, they are “male besties”. Then some things can be helped between these friends, but if your female friend asks you to do the following 3 favors, you must control yourself and refuse directly, so as not to be “unable to extricate yourself” in the end.
1. Ask you to be her boyfriend
The other party may ask you to be her boyfriend to deal with the pressure from her family to get married or go on a blind date. At this time, she may say that she has a boyfriend and bring you home to show her parents. This is dangerous. If you already have a partner, your partner will not agree, which will affect your relationship. If you don’t have a partner, you may turn your fake relationship into a real one. You shouldn’t have been in love, but now you are together. You are not suitable to be together, and this is not a good thing for the future direction of your relationship.
2. Ask you to mediate in her family
There is a family conflict in her family, and she asks you to mediate. Remember not to go at this time, because it is a pit of fire, waiting for you to jump in. There are already conflicts and gaps between the couple, and marrying her is like adding fuel to the fire. Not only can you not mediate their conflicts, but it will make everyone more suspicious of each other. As the saying goes, it is difficult for a judge to judge family affairs. What can you do if you go there? At this time, all we can do is listen to her complaints quietly. Many things will be fine after they are said out, and time will pass.
3. Ask you to borrow a lot of money
Don’t ask someone to borrow a lot of money from you when they are in financial difficulties. It’s okay to borrow a small amount of money, but if you borrow a lot of money, there will be problems, and your relationship may take a sharp turn for the worse. If you can’t pay it back, it will be very embarrassing. Some people say that it takes only one day to return a thousand miles to Jiangling, which means this. So don’t lend money easily to a good female friend.
I can’t help you with these three things. If I help you, it will be difficult for you to return to being friends with me. Some people may even become addicted to them and “unable to extricate themselves”!
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