If you are a poor person, I advise you not to have deep friendships.
There is a question on the internet: Why can’t we associate with poor people?
One fan replied: Poor energy is like a virus and can be contagious.
If you get along with people with poor energy for a long time, their breath will be like a virus, contaminating you, eroding you, and destroying your originally beautiful life.
1. Poor people’s mouths always dump garbage on you.
When Jason just returned from studying abroad, an old classmate came to see him.
I don’t want my classmates to start complaining as soon as they sit down.
The leader has no sense of responsibility, his wife is too nagging, and his children are disobedient… It seems as if all the negative energy in the world has gathered on him.
After a while, Jason was surprised to find that he also started to complain uncontrollably.
He immediately realized he was infected.
When things go wrong, you pour out your bitterness, and when you don’t get what you want, you complain negatively and blame your parents.
This is a poor mouth.
Once you get along with them, their negative energy will be transmitted to you immediately.
If you can’t get rid of it in time, you can only be assimilated by it and sink with it.
I have such a friend.
For a while, her friends complained to her every day.
She has to complain about the interpersonal interactions at work, the mess at home, and even the weather and road conditions every day.
Send voice messages at work and make phone calls after get off work.
Every time, I had no time to digest, and there was a new round of bitterness.
So gradually, I also began to complain and lament.
No matter work or life, everything is full of dissatisfaction.
As a result, the two of them fell deeper and deeper into the abyss of negative energy.
A person with a bad mouth is full of complaints and his body is full of energy black holes.
Over time, your energy will be sucked dry.
Over time, the originally bright life will be destroyed and become bleak.
Stay away in time and get rid of it as soon as possible so that your life will not fall into a trough.
2. Poor people’s hands will habitually take advantage of you.
When the writer Charlie was in college, she had a roommate called Ray.
Ray’s family background is not good, his father is disabled, and he applied for a student loan to attend school.
So at the beginning, everyone tacitly understood that no matter who bought snacks or fruits, they would give Ray a little more.
Gradually, Ray became accustomed to it and often borrowed everyone’s meal cards.
But he never mentioned food money.
One of his roommates got a scholarship, so Ray tried his best to get him to treat him to dinner.
R never paid when we went out for dinner. If anyone asked her about money, she would feel aggrieved:
“We are all classmates, do you care about the money?” “If I have money, I will invite you back!”
But, when others went out to work part-time to earn pocket money, she was too tired and unwilling to do it;
While everyone was studying in the library and striving for scholarships, she fell asleep playing on her mobile phone in the dormitory.
While taking advantage of others, she also wanted to get something for nothing. As time passed, everyone became aware of her habits and alienated her.
A person who is poor, lazy, greedy, and loves to take advantage is poor.
Always want to get without giving, always enjoy the convenience brought by others, but unwilling to provide you with any value.
No one will be happy if they stay with such people for a long time.
The best-selling author tells the story of her teacher Sophia and her colleagues.
The two met through training and later became roommates.
But every time at home, it’s Sophia who cooks, and every time he buys groceries, it’s Sophia who pays.
Not only did her friend not show any regrets, she even asked Sophia to translate it for her every day after getting off work, whether it was a famous quote or an article.
Sophia said that translating is tiring and time-consuming, and she hoped that her friends would not come to her every time, but her friends would not let her go.
Once, she was too tired and rejected a friend. Unexpectedly, her friend immediately changed his attitude.
Seeing this, Sophia moved away a few days later.
Everything is mutual between people.
A poor person is like feeding an unfamiliar wolf. No matter how much you give him, he will not be satisfied. Instead, he will complain against you.
The more you get used to such a person, the more you will suffer.
Don’t let him break into your life, don’t let him drain your energy.
Only by giving up in time without entanglement can you return your body and mind to life and keep your own little life.
3. Poor people’s eyes limit your vision.
Don’t be afraid of poor ability, just be afraid of poor eyesight.
A poor person can only see what is in front of him but not the world.
He doesn’t have a broad vision and can’t make wise decisions. He also thinks he is right and insists on bringing you to the same level as him.
Netizen @Anki failed to find a job after graduation, so she had to go back to work in her home county.
One day, a college classmate contacted him and invited him to open a laundry.
After the relatives and friends around him found out, they quickly grabbed him and said:
“As long as I’ve been growing up, I’ve never seen anyone open a laundromat to make money.”
“Now that washing machines are so common, look at who around you is still spending such a waste of money!”
Just like that, he who originally planned to give it a try also retreated in his heart:
Yes, now everyone can wash their clothes, so who would take them to the laundromat?
He felt more and more that his classmates’ ideas were unreliable, so he simply refused the invitation.
The result is that after the classmate opened a laundry, the business got better and better, but the netizen regretted missing the opportunity.
But, as long as netizens think about it carefully, it is not difficult to find:
My relatives and friends have never left the county town, and have never seen the laundry rooms dotted in big cities. Naturally, they will not think that opening a laundry is a way out.
But the netizen himself went to college and is no stranger to the fact that there are laundry rooms in the city.
It’s just that if you live with relatives and friends around you for a long time, you will inevitably follow other people’s ideas and lose the ability to think independently.
When a crane joins a flock of chickens, there are only two endings: either it will be forced to death by the flock of chickens, or it will be assimilated by the flock of chickens.
The same goes for interactions between people.
If you get along with a poor person for a long time, his narrow vision and shallow knowledge will assimilate you.
If things go on like this, your vision will be limited and your knowledge will be dwarfed.
No matter how much you know and how broad your views are, you will gradually become mediocre and it will be difficult to have a chance to break through.
4. Poor people’s hearts will plot against you secretly.
My friend told the story of her friend Yanny.
When Yanny returned to his hometown to visit relatives, he learned that Sonia was unemployed, so he recommended Sonia to his company.
Yanny is very capable. In just two years, he became a salesperson, supervisor, and manager.
But just after Yanny became the manager, rumors spread in the company:
“The reason Yanny was promoted so quickly was because he had an affair with the vice president.”
“On her own, she doesn’t have that ability at all.”
Yanny was furious when he found out and began to investigate who was spreading the rumors.
Unexpectedly, it was childhood friend Sonia who was slandering her behind her back.
Yanny wondered why her childhood friend wanted to retaliate against her if she was so good to her childhood friend.
childhood friend then answered her: “Our salaries and positions were similar before. Now your position is several levels higher than mine and your salary is several times higher than mine. I feel unbalanced.”
Reminds me of a saying: A poor person has a heart as big as a palm, how can he tolerate you living a better life than him?
If you fly too high, he hopes you will fall; if you get lucky, he curses you to suffer disaster soon.
Even if you treat him sincerely, you may get stabbed in the back by him.
Being poor is a terminal disease that is difficult to cure.
If there is such a person around you, please cut off the relationship with him as soon as possible.
Never make friends with “poor people”.
If you are tied to the poor for a long time, you will not only be contaminated by their poverty, but you will also have to guard against their various schemes.
Over time, your mood and your life will deteriorate, and you will feel tired and tired.
The success or failure of establishing a body depends on what you are infected with.
Purifying your circle and staying away from bad people and bad things is the wisest way to live in life.
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