In a relationship, how to truly enter a woman’s inner heart, please remember three mature methods
It is said that women’s hearts are like needles in the sea, and women are always elusive. Many men have spent their entire lives and still cannot understand a woman. In the world of love, it is not that women are difficult to understand, but that too many men do not use the right methods. If you don’t know how to get along with women, the best way to pursue women is to grasp their weaknesses, be thoughtful, and understand romance.
Men who know how to create romance for women are loved by women. They know how to grasp women’s weaknesses and know that most women cannot resist men’s deep affection.
To grasp a woman’s weakness, you must be thoughtful and romantic. A man who can say sweet words can make a woman happy and devoted. Men are visual animals, while women are auditory animals. For love, how to enter a woman’s heart is the most important thing.
01. Listen and become a woman’s best friend
People who share the same values as us can enter our lives and become our good partners at work, confidants in life, and partners in love.
A bosom friend is a spiritual “heart-to-heart” relationship, a spiritual communication and soul dependence beyond marriage, a spiritual independence, personality equality, and the ability to achieve the tacit understanding and touching of a “bosom friend”. However, a male bosom friend is like a bright pearl after the sand is washed away by the waves, dazzling and eye-catching.
Many male friends are “pleasing to the eye”, but there are very few male friends who are “pleasing to the heart”. Learn to grasp the right measure, know how to advance and retreat, know how to make choices, and not destroy each other’s peaceful life.
It is precisely because there is no dragging ambiguity and no constraints of selfish desires that he can choose to turn around gorgeously at the right time. He would rather choose to pay attention every minute and every second than to disturb her every morning and evening.
Although a male confidant cannot accompany a woman until her death, his presence always gives her encouragement guidance, inspiration, and support. He wins the trust and admiration of a woman with his good qualities and potential strength.
A confidant is a soul conceived in a different body. If a female confidant is a beautiful landscape in a man’s life, then a male confidant is an elegant collector’s edition in a woman’s dream.
02. Seeing and understanding are more important than blindly giving.
There is a saying: “Loving someone is always very simple, it is nothing more than a thought, which brings endless joy. But understanding someone requires gentleness and patience over a long time, just like a pile of sand makes a tower and a drop of water wears away a stone.”
I used to think that giving meant giving the best to the other person. Later, I realized that what you think is good may not be good for the other person as well.
Maybe what he wants is not some expensive gift, but someone willing to stay up late with him and get up early with him, who can share his glory and go through the trough with him.
If you want to enter a woman’s heart, blind devotion is far from enough. It is never measured by material things, but by whether you have given the other person enough patience and companionship in the ordinary days.
Psychologically speaking, people who understand you will love you in the way you need, and people who don’t understand you will love you in the way they need.
A comfortable relationship depends on whether you can be yourself comfortably in front of someone, and you never have to worry about your appearance scaring the other person because true love can stand the test of time because he understands you and is willing to love every side of you.
If a man wants to understand you wholeheartedly, he must be willing to take the initiative to enter your heart, and then try to understand you, starting from remembering your preferences and understanding your thoughts. These understandings will make your love more firm and warm.
03. Growth, encouraging women to be their best selves
Wang Shuo once said in “A Letter to My Daughter”: “You must be rich in heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life.”
The best state for a woman is to wake up every day, face the sun, with a smile on her face, not envying anyone, not trying to please anyone, and making every ordinary day filled with joy.
Just like what Cai Lan said in the book “May You Be the Best Woman”: Women, you can have a thousand and one reasons to be happy.
This book, from a man’s perspective, points out women’s problems from different angles and depths while giving positive encouragement.
The encouragement in the book also emphasizes that letting women find their true selves and learning to love themselves is the first step to being the best version of themselves. First of all, we must have the ability to live a good life.
Have an open-minded personality and thoughts, always think positively, and be less troubled. Always be a lovely girl. Don’t regard everything as your possession, give up some control, and regain some sense of proportion.
There are not so many innate experiences that can make us better, so we need to learn, learn to be independent, learn to be confident, learn to be tolerant, learn to give up, learn to be hardworking, and learn to love.
There is a very common phenomenon in this society: the general environment encourages women to be stable rather than strive. It seems that it is tacitly accepted that girls will spend a lot of time on things other than work, such as relationships. I have seen too many girls whose lives are messed up after a breakup.
Every woman longs to be understood, supported, and accepted, but few people are willing to stop and listen to a woman’s thoughts. If you want to understand a girl, you might as well try to get into her heart, start by becoming her good friend, understand her deeply, and accompany her to grow, encourage, and inspire her, I think one day she will look back and see you.
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