It can be simply put on, so why are most women reluctant to use it?

2bebetter
4 min readJul 6, 2024

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There are inevitably some women like this in life, and maybe you are one of them. Although you know that abortion will have an impact on your body, you still can’t resist the comfort of not using a condom. It’s not until you get pregnant unexpectedly that you regret it. However, not long after, you may forget this lesson and put your health at risk again and again. This behavior is really hard to understand.

Condoms, also known as safe condoms, are naturally worthy of their name. I believe that many people will think that condoms look like “little balloons” when they see them for the first time, and they have the urge to blow them up. However, you have to thank the person who invented it, because, since the invention of condoms, people have been full of love for this “little balloon”. When having sex, they no longer have to worry about accidental pregnancy or remember the complicated safe period. It should be said that the success rate of condoms in contraception is still quite high, and they can also prevent cross-infection of viruses. So why are there still women who are unwilling to use condoms? They have their reasons.

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One view is that using condoms will affect the quality of life of couples

Nowadays, people tend to pay more attention to the quality of their married life. If the man uses a condom during intercourse, the bodies of both parties cannot come into direct contact, and the woman cannot directly experience the pleasure of the intercourse. Some women will not be able to find the feeling after the man uses the condom, which directly affects the quality of their married life. It should be said that this is one of the main reasons why many women do not want men to use condoms. In the eyes of these women, the quality and experience of married life seem to be more important than pregnancy.

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Another view is that the lubricating ingredients in condoms are negative.

We all know that condoms often have some lubricating ingredients, which naturally play a lubricating role, making it easier for both parties to enter the state. However, it is precisely this lubricating ingredient that makes women worry, and this worry is mainly manifested in three aspects, which is not unreasonable if you think about it carefully.

One of the concerns is the source of this lubricating ingredient. Many women who don’t like to use condoms are worried about the source of this lubricating ingredient. After all, this is a chemical ingredient. When manufacturers make this ingredient, whether it complies with the regulations and whether the hygiene is in place are all worrying. The private parts are the most vulnerable part of the human skin. Under the influence of this concern, women are naturally unwilling to choose condoms.

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The second concern is that this lubricating ingredient may cause some problems. These lubricating ingredients on condoms often have a fragrance. Some women are allergic and are naturally unwilling to use them because they are worried that this fragrance will cause allergic reactions. In addition, this ingredient may cause harm to the body, making women susceptible to bacterial infections and inducing gynecological diseases. For this reason, it is understandable that many women refuse to use condoms.

The third worry is that it may make men dependent. Many condoms contain some delaying ingredients in their lubricating ingredients, and men may become dependent on them. This may cause many men to have shorter durations without condoms. Considering this aspect, women are of course unwilling to let their husbands use condoms.

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If we think carefully about these women’s concerns, they are not without reason. However, in life, if you can choose condoms with guaranteed quality, you can avoid these worries to a certain extent. Of course, there are many contraceptive methods now. When women are unwilling to use condoms, they should also pay attention to self-protection. Try to choose to have sex during the safe period, or you can use contraceptive methods such as intrauterine devices, which are less harmful to your health. If you only care about temporary pleasure and get pregnant, it is irresponsible for your health.

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