Middle-aged men and women will become more and more in love with each other, and from between them can have these three cards
Some people compare middle-aged marriages, to a walled city, with high walls, airtight, and everything is a bore;
Some people compare the marriage of middle-aged people to a refrigerator, thought it could keep fresh, but love put, put, become “cold”.
Visible, inside and outside the marriage, love the most real look, there will always be some bad, some helpless, some “a chicken feather”.
However, for people in this life “alive” itself, is a dynamic process.
Anytime, anywhere, will change; every moment, your feelings will be different.
Just like, one second, you are still complaining that he does not care about the family, and the next second, he came out of the kitchen, holding a bowl of egg noodles, and said to you: “Fast, eat while hot”, you are instantly warmed.
Love, that’s how it is.
There is irritation, there is joy; there is monotony, there is romance; there is triviality, there is love …… and in the final analysis, if you are in the nourishment of love, your feeling, there is only this: did not choose the wrong person.
Because middle-aged men and women, can be more and more in love, lies between them, always have, these three cards.
They all agree that “the child’s upbringing is important.”
Few people, in love, mention: children.
But in the love of middle-aged men and women, children are the most important part.
Listen to my friend, the other day, he went to play catch dolls.
Next to a family, surrounded by a lot of people watching.
He went over and it turned out to be a middle-aged couple, leading their children to catch dolls.
Only to see the child’s father pulling a shopping basket, filled with all kinds of captured trophies.
The child is very much like this doll machine inside the Ultraman, but a series of many coins, has not been caught, the small face looks, anxious, and the action is also a little impatient.
The child’s mother is on the side to encourage him: don’t be in a hurry, the hand should be steady.
The child’s father, on the other hand, while teaching him the skills of grabbing, while helping his son to coin, only to hear the sound of a few coins, the family came a cheer.
Let the surrounding crowd of onlookers, can not help but be excited.
Oftentimes, we would always say that the families of today, treating their children, are lacking.
Because there is a lack of companionship.
I am convinced.
People to middle age, the pressure of the family will increase, the work the trouble will increase, even in home time, has become “lazy”, will be too lazy to give their child company, will be too lazy to care about the child’s seven or eight, will be even talking to him about the time of the heart, have become nagging to urge him to study well.
And, the real parents love each other, they will use real company, real action, and the child’s growth process, and give attention to the family atmosphere, always full of warmth and happiness.
Marriage needs the bottom card.
And the child’s happy growth, always the couple of two people, will be more and more love each other’s crystallization.
We’ll give each other “backing and support.”
I’ve read that even though we fight, it doesn’t stop me from loving you.
There is a TV series.
In a middle-aged couple, two people will often fight for some trivial quarrel, the divorce will still always hang on the side of the mouth.
Later, one day, the man was a friend of the knife, when taken away to investigate, the woman immediately put down her emotions, trying to do everything possible to help her husband solve the problem.
Finally, under the woman’s efforts, the man got rid of the suspicion.
When he just walked into the house, ready to give his wife a surprise, but received a phone call from the hospital, the woman at work, because of days of worry coupled with the lack of rest, suddenly fainted, he rushed to the hospital, a moment, a variety of worries surged to the heart, he every day at the door of the ward, praying to heaven so that his wife will soon get well.
Later, under his care, the woman gradually recovered her health, and the two people’s relationship became sweeter and sweeter.
The love of middle-aged men and women is, sometimes, just like that.
When it comes to “things”, everything is clear.
Just like the saying: If you are tired, I will carry you on my back; if I am tired, you will carry me on your back.
Can support each other, each other bottom, can carry each other to help each other, to cross the life of the ditches and hurdles.
This is also the middle-aged couples, more and more love, the important card.
The ability to show patience and develop a “rapport.”
I watched a play that had two very thought-provoking scenes.
The first shot.
A couple, when they were young, love sticky, one day, the woman has a cold, her nose is not air, tossing and turning at night, and can not sleep, the man is very concerned about helping her to bring the ointment so that she sneezed painfully a few sneezes.
After the woman fell asleep, and then turned over, mumbling, the man did not sleep, busy asking: what’s wrong?
The woman did not reply, he could hear that she was mumbling, smiled, relieved to sleep.
The second shot.
Two people after middle age, this day, the woman had a cold again, the man is still giving her medicine and water, but she still can’t sleep, when she wanted to talk to her husband, just opened her mouth, but heard the man impatiently came a sentence: how do you so much ah, but also how do I serve you?
The woman’s heart was cold, her expression changed instantly, and she did not speak again.
People, why get married?
Probably is something when there is a person to discuss; boredom, there is a person who can talk about nonsense; sick, someone to give you a cup of hot water; tired, there is a shoulder to lean on each other; dinner time, you can eat more dishes ……
And these, all need two people, take out the patience, only to be able to cultivate, even if the same under one roof, but also be able to each other, very tacit understanding of each other.
If a relationship, is in the mood to come up, ushered in is the cool water splashed over, that most, it will be once accumulated warm, a little bit of dispersal, and even all covered.
Marriage has been a patient operation for decades.
Those more and more in love with middle-aged men and women, will always have “patience” engraved in the bone, often to add wood to the home heating, so that the home, even in winter, but also to maintain a constant warmth.
Everyone subconsciously thinks that love is gone once you reach middle age.
And, marriage, as a matter of course, becomes a partnership.
But, love never leaves.
Because, it only lies in whether the two people within the marriage, are still attentive to each other, whether they can clean out some of the things that tend to corrupt their feelings, and whether they can welcome the things that sustain good intimacy with each other.
The human heart needs to add love from time to time, to be able to make love, more lasting.
Everyone, from the day you step into marriage, needs to face it, is endlessly trivial.
At this point, only two people can:
Take the child’s growth, as the crystallization of love, together with the heart to give him company;
The problems within the marriage, are treated as a test, to be able to give each other at any time to the bottom and support;
To get along with each other, as the love of refining, to be able to take out patience, heart to grind tacit understanding.
Then, between you, there will certainly be more love, the more interdependent, the more love, the more will make your home, become a cozy harbor.
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