What is the experience of entering a girl’s body for the first time?
Many people may wonder why I, who has always been honest, suddenly became “inappropriate.”
But actually, today’s topic is nothing to be shy about.
When we were still tiny fertilized eggs, we once swam and grew inside her body.
We may have forgotten what that felt like, but they will never forget.
Because it is one of the most important moments in their life and an unforgettable experience — she is about to become a mother.
1. Decision
As it was the first time, you always quietly arrived when no one was paying attention.
Your arrival might have been just an accident, causing them to experience a “disorganized situation.”
For any woman, getting pregnant before marriage is a difficult challenge that she must face with great mental fortitude.
However, deciding to keep you, their mother, showed their strength and perseverance even then.
They had to learn to persuade parents who didn’t understand, negotiate with future in-laws, and most importantly, ensure that their “allies” were on the same side as them.
Regardless of how panicked and uncertain she was when she found out, from the moment she decided to keep you, she started learning how to be a mother for you.
2. Dreams During Pregnancy
No matter how much a woman believes in science, from the moment she dreams of you, she believes it is destiny.
She always firmly believes that it is the first time the little you have entered her dream, and you are both mutually selected and heading toward a familial bond.
Sometimes you are a little angel who flies down from the sky and holds her finger;
sometimes you are a serene deer on the grass, showing her extra intimacy;
sometimes you are a golden unicorn, falling from the world and turning into a beautiful baby in your mother’s arms.
It sounds very mystical, but whether it’s true or not, it’s their imagination of your future.
You might as well ask your mother what you were like in her dreams back then. Morning sickness, no matter what your current personality is, tortured your mother during her first time.
3. Morning Sickness
No matter what your personality is like the first time you tortured your mother.
If someone says they had no reaction during pregnancy, they must be extremely lucky.
In the first few days, they would lose their appetite and have no desire for food.
For these unfortunate beings, food becomes more like a visitor inside their bodies — only a few bits get digested, while most go in and out the same way it entered.
Along with stomach acid reflux, they probably experience for the first time the anxiety of being a mother.
4. Shopping Cart
Almost every mother has suffered from Stockholm Syndrome.
Otherwise, why would she go from being in excruciating pain because of you one second, to willingly sacrificing herself for you the next?
Before you arrived, her shopping cart was filled with fashionable clothes, jewelry, and accessories.
After you arrived, those beautiful clothes were pushed aside into the forgotten realm, while comfortable, loose, and stain-resistant items took over the territory.
But most of the space is reserved for you in the future: cribs, clothes, formula…
During this time, mothers transform into calculating geniuses, striving to provide you with the best experience within the same budget, until your belongings gradually fill every inch of space.
In their own words, even if they have just one thing that belongs to them, they consider it a “loss.”
05. Dress Up
“Your mother was once a young girl too, but for your sake, they had to compromise.”
Every mother in the world says the same thing when shopping: “Can pregnant women use this?”
Grab any pregnant mother, and she can analyze the ingredients on the cosmetics label with expertise.
Nail art and hair dye, these past fashion pioneers, have become their number one enemies in their eyes.
Food must be eaten green and organic, and coffee and milk tea are forcibly given up.
But for your sake, they can only self-hypnotize themselves with “take a step back, see a broader horizon.”
06. Going Out
With you, even going out has gradually become a luxury.
Once upon a time, we could have impromptu trips anytime, anywhere, but now we can only watch documentaries at home to quench our thirst.
It’s not that we don’t want to go out; it’s just that we have too many concerns.
We want to take long trips but are afraid of flying and worried that our bodies won’t handle long hours on the high-speed train.
We want to visit popular attractions but are concerned about the crowds, fearing accidents in the hustle and bustle that may outweigh the gains.
We hesitate to spend too much time exploring our local area, even worrying about the potential impact of additives in the next restaurant…
In the end, the girl has become a homebody, watching her belly grow round day by day, wishing upon stars and moons, anticipating your birth.
07. Changes in the Body
All the suffering mentioned above is nothing compared to the “persecution” you inflict on her physically.
Watching her belly grow day by day, accompanied by poor blood circulation, cold hands and feet, and even leaving an indentation on the swollen skin.
If that were still a small issue, stretch marks would be a “fatal blow” for every beauty-loving girl.
The red scars winding on the stomach are the marks left during your rapid growth.
“Love and hate,” is probably every mother’s initial evaluation of you.
If you’re still a “chubby little boy,” then the torment your mother endures is far greater than others.
To make way for you, the two rectus abdominis muscles in her abdomen are forced apart. At the most extreme, you can even feel their intestines from here.
Are you willing to make her angry after subjecting her to such suffering?
08. Emotional Changes
Regardless of how you are feeling now, for them at the time, the breakdown was accumulating day by day.
As you, who took a long time to be born, caused them increasing anxiety each day, sometimes even making them feel overly dramatic.
The husband’s prolonged absence of messages, the stack of dishes and chopsticks in the kitchen, and the stains on the clothes would all make them cry uncontrollably.
Whenever they fell into the depths of despair, only their “significant other” riding on a rainbow cloud could rescue them from the abyss of negative emotions.
They didn’t expect complete obedience; being understanding and accepting was already the greatest support for them.
Treating them at this time should be like treating the future you. When their emotions spiral out of control, they also become the “baby” that needs to be comforted.
09. Incapable of Self-care
In the final stage, you have already spent more than half a year inside her body.
Compared to the initial “carefree” state, you both now resemble prisoners.
She, who used to walk with grace, now moves forward like a snail. Going from the bed to the bathroom, a distance that was nothing in the past, becomes the farthest journey for her now.
Putting on socks, washing hair, getting up — all these little tasks require someone else’s assistance. But the most troublesome one is sleeping.
With over ten kilograms of flesh in her belly, there is no comfortable sleeping position. If lucky, it takes at least half an hour to find a comfortable sleeping posture.
At this time, you must cooperate obediently with your mother, or else you both will suffer together.
10. Unloading
Congratulations, after ten months, this “journey” is finally over.
When the final bond with the most important woman in your life was severed, you were born.
At that time, you had a wrinkled face, bald and red, like a monkey.
It is said that most mothers’ first reaction upon seeing you was, “Such an ugly thing, and I went through so much trouble to give birth to it.”
Don’t be sad, even though they complain about it, their bodies have honestly nurtured you to this point, allowing you to see the present.
No matter how many arguments and frustrations you experienced during your growth process,
she will always be your mother.
Anyone who says they didn’t have any reaction during pregnancy must be the luckiest one in ten thousand. In the first few days, due to their “loss of appetite,” food was almost like “traveling” through their poor bodies with only a few digested, and most of it went in and out the same way it came in. Along with the stomach acid refluxing back up the esophagus, it was probably the first time they felt the “anxiety” of being a mother. Almost every mother has suffered from Stockholm syndrome because of you at some point. Otherwise, how could they be dying in pain one second and willingly sacrificing themselves for you the next? Before you came, her shopping cart was filled with fashionable clothes, jewelry, and accessories. After you came, those beautiful clothes were moved into the closet to collect dust, and comfortable, loose, and durable things took over the new space. But more space is left for you in the form of a crib, clothes, milk powder, etc. At this point, mothers transform into arithmetic geniuses, striving to give you the best experience within the same budget, until your belongings gradually fill every inch of space.”
“In their own words, having one thing that is solely theirs counts as a ‘loss’ for them.
Appearance.
‘Your mother was once a young girl too,’ but for you, they had to compromise and suppress themselves.
All mothers in the world say the same thing when shopping: ‘Can pregnant women use this?’”
“Just grab a pregnant woman, and she can analyze the ingredients list of cosmetics with ease. Manicures and hair dye, which used to be fashion icons, have become their number one enemy in the eyes of pregnant women. They insist on eating organic and green food and have to give up coffee and milk tea. But for the sake of their baby, they can only comfort themselves with the idea that sometimes one has to take a step back to move forward. Going out becomes a luxury after having a baby. Traveling at any time used to be a breeze, but now they can only watch documentaries at home. It’s not that they don’t want to go out, it’s just that they’re worried too much. They are afraid of taking a long-distance trip by plane, and they’re also afraid of being physically exhausted when taking Inter-City trains. They want to visit popular tourist sites but fear the crowds, thinking that accidents might occur if it gets too crowded; they don’t even dare to stay outdoors for long, worrying about the impact of additives in food.”
“The ultimate girl turned into a shut-in. She watched as her belly grew round day by day, hoping and waiting for your birth. All the suffering she endured cannot compare to the “persecution” you are causing her body. With her belly gradually expanding, it resulted in poor blood circulation, cold hands and feet, and even creating a depression in the swollen skin when pressed.”
If this is still a minor issue, then stretch marks can be a “fatal blow” to every beauty-loving girl. The red scars winding on the stomach are the marks left when you grow rapidly. “Love and hate,” is probably every mother’s initial evaluation of it.
If you are still a “fat kid”, your mother will suffer more than others. In order to make way for you, the two straight muscles in her abdomen are forced to separate, and at the most exaggerated times, you can even touch her intestines from there.
“Do you have the heart to make her angry after making her suffer so much? Emotional changes. No matter how you feel now, for them at the time, the breakdown was accumulating day by day. You, who did not come for a long time, made them more and more anxious every day, sometimes even feeling that they were being melodramatic themselves. The husband who doesn’t reply for a long time, the dishes piled up in the kitchen, and the stains on the clothes can all make them cry uncontrollably. When they are in the midst of a breakdown, only their “significant other” who drives a colorful cloud can help them get out of the negative emotions. Just being understanding and accepting is already the greatest support for her. When dealing with her at this time, it’s like treating your future self. When her emotions are out of control, she also becomes the “baby” that needs to be comforted. “Unable to take care of oneself.” In the final stage, you have been inside her body for more than half a year. Compared with the initial “carefree” state, you are now more like being imprisoned. She who used to walk with the wind now moves forward step by step like a snail. Going from the bed to the toilet, what used to be just a few steps away is now the farthest distance for her. Putting on socks, washing her hair, and getting up all require the help of others. And the most troublesome is sleep. With more than ten kilograms of flesh in her stomach, she cannot sleep comfortably no matter how she lies down. If she’s lucky, it can take half an hour to adjust to a comfortable sleeping position.”
“Do you have the heart to make her angry after making her suffer so much? Emotional changes. No matter how you feel now, for them at the time, the breakdown was accumulating day by day. You, who did not come for a long time, made them more and more anxious every day, sometimes even feeling that they were being melodramatic themselves. The husband who doesn’t reply for a long time, the dishes piled up in the kitchen, and the stains on the clothes can all make them cry uncontrollably. When they are in the midst of a breakdown, only their “significant other” who drives a colorful cloud can help them get out of the negative emotions. Just being understanding and accepting is already the greatest support for her. When dealing with her at this time, it’s like treating your future self. When her emotions are out of control, she also becomes the “baby” that needs to be comforted. “Unable to take care of oneself.” In the final stage, you have been inside her body for more than half a year. Compared with the initial “carefree” state, you are now more like being imprisoned. She who used to walk with the wind now moves forward step by step like a snail. Going from the bed to the toilet, what used to be just a few steps away is now the farthest distance for her. Putting on socks, washing her hair, and getting up all require the help of others. And the most troublesome is sleep. With more than ten kilograms of flesh in her stomach, she cannot sleep comfortably no matter how she lies down. If she’s lucky, it can take half an hour to adjust to a comfortable sleeping position.”
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