Money will come naturally. When you are in debt and are so poor your loved ones look down upon you.

2bebetter
5 min readApr 7, 2024

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A person’s life is always going to go through ups and downs. No one has everything going smoothly. Many people will be ridiculed and looked down upon by the people around them after they are down. When we are at a low point in life, how should we build our psychology?

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Many people, when they are heavily in debt, become particularly depressed and feel that life is hopeless. The most uncomfortable thing is that you are being chased for money every day. Even your regular friends will try their best to ask you to pay back the money as soon as possible. They are worried that you will not be able to pay back the money or you will be in debt for the rest of your life.

It is said that it is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality. When we are immersed in the halo that success brings us, most of us cannot accept our own failures. This cliff-like change in circumstances will make our mood unable to be peaceful. Not only does the attitude of people around us change, but more importantly, failure brings us frustration. At this stage, you will also find that starting from scratch is often more difficult than starting from scratch. The biggest difficulty is whether you can regain your confidence.

When you are in good times, you have a group of close friends around you, but when you are down, you find that those friends no longer interact with you, for fear that you will borrow money from them or ask for help. Therefore, when you are down once, you will understand: that people’s hearts are cold, and not many people can treat you sincerely.

When you are poor, even your relatives and friends look down on you, and no one cares about you. Some too many people only care about money and not family ties. This is real life. The world is in a cold state, and we can only keep our hearts warm. When one day you are down and out and so poor that your relatives look down upon you, please keep these three sentences in mind.

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1. It doesn’t matter if you owe money, as long as you are in good health, you will be able to make a comeback.

As the saying goes: If you keep the green hills, you won’t have to worry about having firewood! It doesn’t matter if you owe hundreds of thousands or hundreds of thousands, it’s just the price of a house. As long as you are in good health and work hard to make money, you will be able to pay it back in no time.

If you feel that you have no way out, then please go to the hospital and take a look. Those who want to fight but are tortured by illness have lost such an opportunity.

How much money you owe depends on how much you can afford to pay it back. Business tycoons often owe money to the bank, but they continue their careers without any panic.

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2. Mountains will fall if you rely on them, but you will run if you rely on everyone.

In today’s society, human nature and people’s hearts are the most difficult to predict and the most vicious thing. When you are prosperous and prosperous, you are surrounded by friends. When you are down and out, you have no friends at all.

Mountains will fall if you rely on them, and everyone will fall if you rely on them. The only way to live your life is to rely on yourself. Only through your own efforts and not placing your hopes on others can you have a way out.

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3. Exercise your counter-quotient

People often say that there are three quotients on the road to success, IQ, EQ, and AQ, which represent the intelligence quotient, emotional quotient, and reverse quotient respectively. The concept of reverse quotient may be unfamiliar to everyone. An American vocational trainer first proposed the concept of adversity quotient, that is, frustration quotient or adversity quotient, which refers to people’s ability to respond and escape from adversity.

General Patton once said: “The measure of a person’s success is not the height at which he reaches the top, but the ability to rebound when he reaches the bottom.” Some scholars have asserted that 100% success = IQ (20%) +EQ and AQ (80% in total)

From all angles, the reverse quotient is crucial to a person’s growth. People often only see prosperity and beauty in high places and only have time to reflect in low places. The adversity quotient represents a person’s willpower in the face of setbacks. A person’s adversity quotient is often more important than his EQ and IQ. On the road of life, giving up often means failure. Only when we dare to experience adversity can we achieve different things. Life.

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4. Control your emotions and learn to calm down and think.

When you are heavily in debt, you must be in a bad mood and don’t know how to turn around in the future. Especially after a business fails, the “full of confidence” state will disappear, and the mood will even be very low, just like riding a roller coaster, but the excitement can’t be tolerated.

Control your emotions and maintain a stable mental state. Even if you avoid all the people asking for money, it is best to be alone. At this time, you should not fall asleep but think clearly about why you failed and what the way out will be in the future. If you were to develop something, who could you rely on? Or, if you shamelessly ask others, no one will agree to continue to help you. What industry should you start in? Think clearly about the past, present, and future of life.

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