Money will come naturally. When you are in debt and are so poor your loved ones look down upon you.

2bebetter
5 min readApr 7, 2024

A person’s life is always going to go through ups and downs. No one has everything going smoothly. Many people will be ridiculed and looked down upon by the people around them after they are down. When we are at a low point in life, how should we build our psychology?

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Many people, when they are heavily in debt, become particularly depressed and feel that life is hopeless. The most uncomfortable thing is that you are being chased for money every day. Even your regular friends will try their best to ask you to pay back the money as soon as possible. They are worried that you will not be able to pay back the money or you will be in debt for the rest of your life.

It is said that it is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality. When we are immersed in the halo that success brings us, most of us cannot accept our own failures. This cliff-like change in circumstances will make our mood unable to be peaceful. Not only does the attitude of people around us change, but more importantly, failure brings us frustration. At this stage, you will also find that starting from scratch is often more difficult than starting from scratch. The biggest difficulty is whether you can regain your confidence.

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