Most of them have poor character. No matter their love, if Men have these three hobbies.

what do habits break off the relationship?

2bebetter
4 min readMar 30, 2024

People often say, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

When a woman falls in love with a man, she will trust him without any bottom line.

A man’s hobbies and personality can also reflect his character.

If a man has these three hobbies, don’t trust him easily.

Once you fall into the vortex of love, you will be trapped in it and it will be difficult to extricate yourself.

No matter how much you love someone, you must learn to keep your distance and independence.

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1. Like to idle around

The greatest happiness in life is to find someone and run a life together with him.

But in life, some men leave home in pursuit of so-called freedom, regardless of the opposition of their families.

They like to be idle and have no work of their own, just thinking about pie in the sky.

As a result, without a stable source of income, life will soon overwhelm you.

They are idle all day long, doing nothing, wasting all their time and energy on games and the Internet.

There is such a story:

A man likes to play games very much and often stays up all night.

One night when he came home, he found that his wife had left the house.

“I’ll never do anything else again,” he told his wife.

As a result, his wife was disappointed and divorced him.

He lost his family and job and had to rely on begging to survive. If not forced by life, who would want to live such a life?

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2. Like to mess around with women

As the saying goes, “If a man is not bad, a woman will not love you.”

If a man likes to flirt with women and often flirts with women, he probably has a bad character.

A woman can love a man, but she must also have her bottom line and principles.

Don’t just be obedient to him and not care about anything just because you love him.

Such a man will never be loyal and dedicated to you.

When you have a problem, he will make you a scapegoat for his benefit.

Therefore, when a man is with you, he is always ambiguous with other women.

Such a man is a typical “scumbag” and you must stay away from him.

How a person’s character is can be seen in life.

A man with good character will respect you, love you, and protect you;

Men with bad character will only play with you and hurt you.

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3. Like to drink and cause trouble

“Wine” is a man’s favorite thing, and it is also the most hurtful thing.

When a man starts drinking alcohol, it means that his heart has changed and he has lost his passion for life.

Fan Shengmei in “Ode to Joy” is a typical example. The reason why she chose such a person was because she was blinded by love.

A man who loves to drink is unreliable at any time.

He would always vent his emotions on others, thinking that drinking would solve everything.

He used alcoholism as his way to relieve stress and was very disrespectful to his wife, parents, and even everyone around him.

When you find a man drunk and making trouble, you must stay away from him immediately.

Don’t be fooled by his appearance, otherwise you will be the one who gets hurt in the end.

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Some people say, “It is enough to love your partner for seven points, and love yourself for the remaining three points.”

Therefore, in a relationship, a woman must know how to leave space for herself.

If a man is too clingy and jealous in love.

Then, you have to think about it carefully. Is he worrying about gains and losses because he loves you so much? Or are you uneasy because I don’t trust you?

Either way, it means he has reservations about you.

On the contrary, if a man has these three hobbies, it means that his character is very poor.

Just like those jealous women, the deeper you love him, the more likely you are to worry about gains and losses.

Because in this relationship, he doesn’t believe that you can love him wholeheartedly.

Once his heart is not on you, he will lose his mind in his eyes.

Therefore, women must understand: that whether a man’s character is good or not can be seen from some details in life.

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