Marriage is not a necessity, taking care of one’s own life is the most important

2bebetter
6 min readMay 18, 2024

It’s a cliché, the importance of female independence. I believe that in modern society, many people still think that marriage is the final destination. I do not deny this, but many people ignore one thing, that is, they cannot give up and forget themselves even after they have a destination.

Just because you have a wonderful marriage does not mean that you are a winner in life, but you are a winner in life if you know how to make yourself better and take better care of yourself in a marriage.

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01. Marriage is not a necessity in life

My colleague Ximena is a “marriage maniac” and has been looking for a “good man” since graduating from college. He wants to find someone with a successful career and a good family background to marry. But things went against her wishes. After four or five years of searching, she was still single, and she could not find the person who was most suitable for her after comparing and comparing.

Colleagues all advised her not to be so demanding. For a girl who is nearly 32 years old, it is the wisest decision to marry as early as possible. In the end, Ximena could not resist the secular opinions, and under the arrangement of her parents, she found a man with a similar family background…

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