Never be a cheap person

5 min readApr 13, 2024

Raising one’s attitude and not catering to everything is the true sobriety of an adult.

In life, we often have such confusions:

Why do I put others first in everything, but others don’t appreciate me?

Why did my partner leave me in the end after I paid so much for him?

The truth often sounds cruel, but it is precisely because of your infinite connivance that you allow the other party to hurt you again and again.

When there is no cost for making mistakes and there is no price to pay for harm, then your efforts will not be cherished.

Many people in this world are unpredictable and difficult to reconcile. We don’t have to compromise ourselves to help others.

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In any relationship, it is most important to have a good sense of proportion and never be the cheap person.

Not all efforts can be rewarded with a smile

Whether facing relatives, friends, or lovers, she is always accustomed to putting herself in a low position, meeting the needs of others first, and taking care of other people’s emotions in everything.

But in the end, he failed to win a good home for himself and instead lived more and more tiredly.




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