People who really know how to talk never say these 5 things, it’s not too late to understand.
Today, we will learn how to interact with people, what to say and not to say, and how to be a linguist.
Let’s first look at what not to say, five types of speech: sickness, complaints, worries, anger, and excessive joy.
Interpersonal communication is, the most taboo to say these 5 kinds of words, deal with these 5 points, you speak to do twice as much with half the effort.
Don’t talk about sickness
Sickness, the feeling of a weak gas and not God also
That is, when you speak with no energy, the performance of the sick, inert, this will give a dead impression, think you lack vitality and vitality, no force and progress, not worth the appointment.
At the same time, the breathlessness of speech, also gives people a sense of disrespect, even if the body really does not feel well, enough to communicate with others, but also to say clearly, stammers to speak, time-consuming and laborious, no one will always be accommodated to your mood.
don’t talk about complaints
The one who complains has no master and no intestines.
Always complaining to others about things, as if they have suffered a great deal of aggression, a snot, and a tear, once or twice, others will sympathize with you.
But if it is often complaining, moving to complain about the dislike, such behavior is very sweeping and affects the mood of others, after a long time, no one is willing to communicate with you, because you get all the negative news here, meaningless.
No one wants to be a trash can of human emotions. At the same time, the person who complains well naturally has little commitment.
Don’t talk about worries
Worried, closed but not leaking.
Good to talk about melancholy words, movement without movement on the sigh, said good-sounding point called have literary cells, said unpleasant some do not sick
You often say what kind of words, invisible influence on their behavior, and contribute to what kind of results.
If you always say sad words, you will feel bad luck and depressed if you are with them.
Don’t talk about anger
Anger is the result of delusional behavior that is not cured.
If you speak with anger, people will want to avoid you, because no one wants to see you lose your temper, and they think that you are irritable and unstable.
At the same time, when you are angry, the words you say are often hurtful, unintentionally hurting people, although it is not your intention to do so, it will still cause an ugly situation.
Therefore, when you are angry, the first thing you need to do is to keep quiet and let your mind return to normal before dealing with things.
Don’t talk about joy.
Joyful, scattered, and unimportant
When you are very happy, the mood is more exciting, and the words spoken will certainly be incoherent so that people do not understand what you want to express and think you are too frivolous.
Therefore, controlling your emotions is the most important thing. Whether you are happy or angry, you should calm down first before communicating with others.
At the same time, do not always tell people about their happy events, people are jealous, and if you talk too much, people will think that you are showing off, showing off.
In the tapestry of human interaction, these teachings shine as a beacon. By steering clear of these five types of speech, you pave the way for effective communication, unlocking the potential for success in your endeavors.
