1. Soft-hearted, reasonable and forgiving
I like this sentence very much:
If you become more and more indifferent, you think you have grown, but in fact you have not. When you grow up, you should become gentle and be gentle to the whole world.
Maturity means being able to let go of many things, being compassionate, and being willing to look at the world with a kind eye.
The more mentally strong people are, the more they can be calm and kind to others, especially the disadvantaged groups because they understand that “don’t speak loudly when you are justified”, and you need to forgive others when you are justified.
They will not be completely disappointed with the world just because they have been hurt, hit a wall, or suffered a loss. Instead, they will face and accept all the good and the bad more gently.
Being strong doesn’t mean being perfect, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t have weaknesses, and it doesn’t mean it’s invincible.
Strength is a kind of inner honesty. Because his heart is open enough, he can be more tolerant, understanding, and considerate of himself and others.
2 Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions
Many times, we always care about other people’s opinions and evaluations.
So when making choices and decisions, we always expect to be recognized by others to be confident. And when we are opposed by others, we inevitably feel like giving up.
Everyone has their way of living and living.
You don’t have to use other people’s standards to define yourself. There is no need to satisfy everyone, because everyone has only one life, and you should live more for yourself.
No one knows yourself better than you. No one can be what you want.
Only you have the qualifications and rights to be the protagonist of your own life.
You always have to know that the world ultimately belongs to you and has nothing to do with anyone else. Only the strong can please themselves.
3. Be open-minded and bearish on gains and losses.
I have read this story:
A man named Mike was walking on the road carrying a steamer. He accidentally dropped the steamer and broke it to the ground. he continued to move forward without looking back.
Google, a famous person at the time, saw this and felt very strange. He asked Mike why he left without looking at it.
Mike said that it was already broken, so what’s the use of looking at it again?
This story can be understood as letting go and not dwelling on the past. It can be understood as maturity and not caring about dead people and bad things. It can also be understood as being open-minded and open-minded and looking down on gains and losses.
A person with a strong heart often has such qualities, as taking gains and losses lightly, being optimistic, cheerful, and free and easy.
4 Don’t mess with the rhythm
Everyone has his progress and order on the road of life.
But people are social and when they get along together, comparisons with each other will inevitably occur.
Sometimes we feel anxious because someone else is ahead of us. Sometimes, we relax a little because of others’ slack.
But truly strong people know how to control their rhythm. They will not blindly compare with others, nor will they be negatively affected by others.
Usually, dull people are very easy to follow in the footsteps of others. The outstanding ones, on the other hand, can keep their pace and move in their determined direction calmly.
5. Willing to be ruthless to oneself
Many people should have heard this saying: If you don’t push yourself, you will never know how good you are.
So, what kind of person would push himself? The answer is: People who are mentally strong enough.
They are confident enough, know how to appreciate themselves, and are eager to meet a better version of themselves;
They are sensible enough to know that only by constantly strengthening themselves can they go further;
They are open-minded enough to not care about temporary gains and losses, success or failure; they are strong enough not to be easily knocked down or give up easily…
In this way, they dare to give it a try, be willing to be cruel to themselves and force themselves to become better.
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