Please give up your “smartness”, because a marriage that is more “confused” will be happier

5 min readMar 18, 2024

Thomas once said: “Before you get married, you should open your eyes and look carefully; after you get married, you should turn a blind eye.”

The so-called “turn one eye, close one eye” generally means “pretending to be confused”.

“Pretending to be confused” is a state and a “little trick” used by smart people to run a family.

In fact, “pretending to be confused” does not mean that a person is submissive and resigned to letting his lover do whatever he wants. “Pretending to be confused” means that you need to change your way of thinking.

People who care about others may get a moment of satisfaction, and people who are unreasonable and unforgiving may get a moment of vanity. However, along with satisfaction and glory, there may be hidden dangers. Pretending to be confused at the right time may lead to surprises.

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It is not easy for people who are too smart to be happy, because this kind of person sees everything too clearly, and everything is not simple in his eyes.

If a person always thinks about things too complicatedly, then he must be unhappy.

The woman’s conditions are very good, she has looks, status, and is very smart .




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