Psychological Games in love: How to Make Him Fall in love with You completely
If you want a man to fall in love with you, grasp his three psychological weaknesses and you can get twice the result with half the effort.
In this era where “appearance is king”, we often hear romantic stories of “love at first sight”, but true love is more than just the attraction of appearance. As the French writer La Rochefoucauld said: “Love cannot be hidden for long, nor can it be pretended for long.” Today, let’s talk about how to skillfully use a man’s psychology in this psychological game of love and make him fall in love with you completely.
1. Give moderately and don’t let the balance of love be unbalanced
In the world of love, giving and receiving are often not equal. Some girls, once they fall in love, will devote themselves wholeheartedly, even at the expense of their own principles and bottom line. But don’t forget that love is a matter between two people, and excessive giving will only make men take it for granted, or even get bored.
Faye is a gentle and kind girl. Since she met Harry, her life has completely changed. She prepares breakfast for Harry every day, washes clothes and cooks for him, and even gives up her dream for his career. However, Harry did not cherish her more because of this but became more and more indifferent.
Why? Because Faye’s excessive dedication made Harry feel that this love came too easily, and he could get all of Faye without giving anything. Therefore, if you want a man to fall in love with you, you must first learn to give moderately and maintain a balance in love.
2. Reject ambiguity and make love more pure
Ambiguity is the most dangerous game in love. It puts people in an uncertain state, both expecting and fearing. But if you want to develop feelings with a man, you must learn to reject ambiguity and make love purer.
Yadira is a beautiful and generous girl with many suitors. Among them, there is a boy named Samuel who has been pursuing her relentlessly. Samuel sends Yadira WeChat messages every day to care about her life and even delivers medicine to her door when she is sick. But Yadira knows that Samuel has never clearly expressed his love for her, and the relationship between them is always in an ambiguous state.
Yadira didn’t want to continue like this, she wanted her love to be clear and firm. So she took the initiative to talk to Samuel and made her thoughts clear: “I hope our relationship can go further, but if you just want to keep an ambiguous relationship with me, then I don’t think we need to continue.”
Samuel was shocked by Yadira’s words. He didn’t expect Yadira to be so direct. But it was this directness and determination that made him see Yadira’s seriousness and persistence in love. In the end, he mustered up the courage to confess his love to Yadira, and the two of them got together smoothly.
3. Keep a sense of mystery and make him want you more
Men are born with a desire to conquer and curiosity. In love, if you can maintain a certain sense of mystery and make him want you, then he will be more likely to be attracted to you.
Hazel is a smart girl who knows how to keep a sense of mystery in love. Every time she goes on a date with her boyfriend Matthew, she dresses up carefully to impress Matthew. At the same time, she also gives Matthew some surprises and unexpected joys from time to time, making him curious and expectant about her.
Matthew was deeply attracted by Hazel’s mystery. He felt that he could never figure out Hazel’s thoughts. So he pursued Hazel even harder, hoping to win her heart. Hazel also enjoyed the fun and satisfaction of being chased in this game of love.
Love is a psychological game. Only if you know how to use a man’s psychology can you make him fall in love with you completely. But please remember that love is not a game, but requires true dedication. Only when you treat love sincerely can you gain true happiness.
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