“A scholar is for those who know oneself, and a woman is for those who please oneself.”
When a person is deeply involved in a certain emotional “obsession”, he is willing to go through life and death for it and loses himself unknowingly. This kind of “emotional” is the easiest to impress people, but it also becomes the beginning of “self-inflicted”.
Really powerful people will not be “emotional”. When faced with the censure of life, they will take it easy and cherish it. They will eventually break out of their own “new world” with their strong faith and perseverance in execution.
Only by not being “emotional” can we fight back.
In life, we often see scenes like this: because we can’t stand the boss’s malicious attempts to make things difficult, we angrily quit a job with great development prospects. After calming down, we regret it; because we can’t stand the mediocrity of our other half, we choose “ “Cut in two” and go around in circles for several years. Only then did I realize that I most wanted to go back to the past…
Those hurdles that were difficult to overcome at the time were regarded as “big” things. After the erosion and washing of time, they will eventually become insignificant, or even blurred into fragments, and it will be impossible to piece together the “true face of things”.
If you don’t understand that the price of “emotional things” will take a lifetime to repay, your life will likely sink or be destroyed. On the contrary, it will usher in “Nirvana and rebirth.”
It can be seen from this that those people and things that put you in trouble are the “dojo” provided by fate. Don’t “meet the hard” anymore, don’t stubbornly “go one way to the end”, find another way, and continue to move forward through all obstacles. The road is still full of hope.
Only by not being “emotional” can you gain something once and forever.
It is easy but difficult to achieve things if they are not easy.
People often have fresh memories of the hardships they endured and the pain of struggle, but it is easy to get lost in how to “maintain success” after “success” and how to climb from one peak to another.
One “emotional act” may be the starting point for the entire “building” to collapse.
It can be seen that once people become “emotional”, they will lose the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and their own destiny will be firmly controlled by others, and they will only get further and further away from the original life track, and in the end, it will end with an unmanageable outcome.
The older I get, the more experiences I have, and the more I understand.
In the process of dealing with people, apart from feelings, there are more objective and realistic factors that maintain feelings.
Don’t indulge in the “emotional” quagmire, otherwise, you will only be trapped by emotion and stop moving forward.
