Redefining Sexiness: 9 Overlooked Qualities that Redefine Attractiveness

2bebetter
5 min readJul 2

9 Underrated Qualities that Make a Person Sexy

What makes someone attractive? Is it their humor, the way they dress or act, or maybe their charming good looks? These qualities may be obvious, like their physical attraction, or other traits that are less so. Would you like to know more about those elusive, less obvious ones? Well, here are 9 underrated qualities that make a person sexy.

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1. The Push and Pull Game

You know how to play the push-and-pull game. Are you a natural at switching between the roles of desirable and desiring? According to research, playing hard to get is a potent mating tactic originating from a perceived demand for the person. It involves being inviting and needing or giving and receiving at the same tempo as your partner’s preference. The constant push and pull orchestrate a dance of sorts. The partner naturally develops a liking to your actions and joins it at will, strengthening the intimate connection between the two of you.

2. Mischievous Tendencies

Sexy people have a knack for knowing when to be naughty and when to be playful. Do you often find yourself falling for the antagonist in a movie? Sexy people possess healthy levels of self-knowledge and with their natural confidence and charisma, they have a steady self-view. Since this is the case, you know exactly what you want and are not afraid to make a decision based on your needs. Since sexy people know themselves best, a person attracted to you must understand your self-view. Making demanding your love futile. If it doesn’t work out, you are either right for them or not, with no in-betweens.

3. Self-Confidence and Charisma

Sexy people possess healthy levels of self-knowledge and with their natural confidence and charisma, they have a steady self-view. Since this is the case, you know exactly what you want and are not afraid to make a decision based on your needs. Since sexy people know themselves best, a person attracted to you must understand your self-view, making demanding your love futile. If it doesn’t work out, you are either right for them or not, with no in-betweens.

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