Scholar-lord is all “practiced”. Mastering these skills will help children avoid detours in their studies.

10 min readJun 8, 2024

Many people say that scholar-lords are born and ordinary children cannot learn from them.

In fact, behind every academic success is hard work and the influence of the family environment.

A few days ago, when I was chatting with my aunt, I accidentally learned that my cousin who graduated from a prestigious school now earns more than 5000 dollars a month.

This is undoubtedly the ceiling level for office workers in ordinary families.

Just like this, everyone is even more aware of the difference between those with diplomas and those without diplomas

There are even relatives who go to their aunts to seek advice on educating children to cultivate scholar-lords like their cousins.

One time, I happened to meet my cousin who was home to visit relatives, and we all got together to have dinner.

When talking about learning issues at that time, my cousin said something like this:

“For what I have achieved today, the person I should be most grateful to is my mother.”

“When I was a kid, I gave up more than once. I didn’t want to go to school or do my homework when I was in school. My favorite trick was to pretend to be sick and have a stomach ache. My mother knew there was something fishy about it. You also gently encouraged me to hold on a…




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