Sharpen your will and character in ordinary life and polish yourself into sparkling gold

7 min readMar 16, 2024

We cannot say that the moon is not round just because it is waning;

We cannot say that the sun is not eternal just because of a solar eclipse.

There are good and bad days on any day, and no day or environment is 100% good.

The reason why we often complain about the unfairness of life is because we always have a pessimistic and complaining view of our situation, rather than an optimistic and happy view.

One day, General Motors was about to lay off employees, and Lina and Amida from the back office office were on the list. It was stipulated that they must leave their jobs after one month. At that time, both of their eyes were red.

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When she went to work the next day, Lina was still very excited and didn’t have a good temper with anyone. She seemed to have taken a bullet. She didn’t dare to go to the boss to vent her grievances, so she complained to the director and cried to her colleagues: “Why should I be laid off?” “Fuck? I did a good job.” “This is so unfair to me.” The way she burst into tears made people feel sympathetic, but everyone didn’t know how to comfort her.

But she only focused on complaining and redressing her grievances everywhere, so that her duties such…




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