Signs of people who lack love: calculating, argumentative, and often saying unpleasant things

2bebetter
5 min readJun 7, 2024

People who lack love often behave like childish people. Sometimes they don’t know how to admit their mistakes, they like to quarrel, and sometimes they act coquettishly and willfully.

It is because the inner child has never grown up, so we have these seemingly childlike behaviors.

By learning to identify, you can better understand yourself and the people around you. Only by finding the source of the problem can you know how to solve it.

Even if you can’t solve it, you no longer feel like “Why am I like this?” “My personality is bad!” “My life is bad” and so on.

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1. Enjoy calculating

People who lack love always care about who does more housework. Last time I paid you 100, but this time you pay me 50.

You will also feel sad when your colleagues go to pick up the lunch boxes they ordered, but they don’t pick up yours.

The source of care is the fear of being treated badly. Parents of people who lack love are usually stingy and don’t want to spend resources on their children. Some people don’t want to spend money, and some people don’t want to spend time.

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