Smart women never show off these two things to the outside world, but confused women say it to everyone.

2bebetter
3 min readMar 30, 2024

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In this world, there are many smart people but very few confused people.

Many people say that smart women can control their destiny, while confused women are always controlled by others.

A smart woman knows how to keep a low profile, while a confused woman likes to show off everywhere.

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1. Real wealth

“If you are poor, don’t stay with relatives; if you are rich, stay with other people.”

Some women like to show off their wealth and always feel that their family’s conditions are good, which gives them a sense of superiority.

A truly confident woman doesn’t need to show off. Only a truly confident woman can live confidently and have everything she wants.

A truly confident woman would never show off how much money her family has.

They will not show off how rich their family is, but will only work silently in front of others to strive for a better life for themselves. They have confidence and strength, but they never show it off in front of others.

A truly confident woman will not show off how much money she has in her family, because they know that these are external things and life is the most important thing.

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2. The resentment in my heart

A smart woman, no matter how much resentment she has in her heart, will not complain in front of outsiders. Because she knows that complaining is the most useless thing. It will only make things worse.

A smart woman knows how to vent her inner dissatisfaction, complaints and other emotions to her lover and friends. Because they know that complaining will not solve any problems, but will make things worse.

A smart woman knows how to control her inner emotions and how to make herself better.

But confused women often complain and even vent all their grievances on outsiders.

However, truly smart and wise people are those who know how to control their emotions.

They know when to do something and don’t make things worse. They won’t complain about anything in front of outsiders, because they know that complaining can’t solve any problems.

Therefore, smart women never show off all the grievances and dissatisfactions in their hearts.

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Smart women are always very low-key and will not show off their achievements in front of outsiders, let alone show off their happiness everywhere.

They understand the principle of “there are people outside the world, and there is heaven outside the world”, so they know how to be humble.

Confused women always like to show off their achievements and regard themselves as a “queen”-like existence.

They always feel that they are powerful and want others to look up to them.

They don’t understand that the smarter a woman is, the more she knows how to behave in a low-key manner and do things in a high-profile manner.

In this world, we are all ordinary people.

We must learn to respect everyone, no matter they are good or bad.

We must also learn to be humble and not always think too highly of ourselves.

No matter how powerful a woman is, she is just a woman, and it is impossible for everyone to like her.

Therefore, we have to be a “wise but foolish” woman, and it is not difficult for others to take a high look at us.

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