Surprise is a little spark in marriage, which can make the relationship set off brilliant fireworks and illuminate life.

2bebetter
6 min readMar 23, 2024

Surprise is a little spark in marriage, which can make the relationship set off brilliant fireworks and illuminate life.

Surprise is a little spark in marriage, which can make the relationship set off brilliant fireworks and illuminate life.

Couples who manage their marriage carefully need to create surprises for each other every now and then.

Predicting the future is a kind of joy, but the joy of the future is another kind of joy. Therefore, never solidify what happiness looks like. Happiness lies in presupposition and creation. It is precisely because of the ever-changing nature that life will have surprises.

Married life is the same, it needs a little unexpected surprises to embellish it, so that it can survive the changes for a long time. For example: suddenly appearing in your lover’s office and bringing your lover’s favorite iced milk tea; telling your lover that you have the wrong flight, calling at the door. Calling to tell someone you miss them, then pushing the door open…these surprises are the best gifts for each other.

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