The difference between a man’s “love for you” and “wanting to have a sex relationship” is something women must understand.

2bebetter
3 min readFeb 16, 2024

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In the world of feelings, some men are whims, a whim; but a responsible man is to share your commitment and be with you for a long time.

Women should never mistake a man’s closeness to you for sincerity. For men, love and desire can be separated.

Don’t look at him to you to start the pursuit of the sky, to tell you sweet words of love, but his ultimate goal, is to deceive you to have a relationship with him.

Men want to love you or want to sleep with you, only action and details can let you see a person’s heart.

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1、When spending money for you

Want to sleep with your man, often the money is very stingy, not to buy you little expensive things, and even to cry poor sell, with you split the bill.

However, looking through his circle of friends, you will know that he usually spends a lot of money, only for you to pretend to be poor.

And want to love you, man, afraid to give you not enough, they are not only willing to spend time with you but also willing to spend money for you to make you happy, for you to prepare a small surprise, he will work hard to earn money, want to give you all the good.

For him, as long as you are happy, he does what is worth.

2、When you are sick

Want to sleep with your man he is generally very good at pleasing you, gentle and considerate, thoughtful everywhere, and creating a warm man setup, but this is all manifested in the mouth.

When you need him when you are sick, he has an excuse, busy, can not come to stay with you, is casually concerned about you for a few sentences, and people disappear.

And want to love you man may not be able to bring you sensational love, but he can take care of you from all aspects of life when you get sick to buy medicine after work to visit you if you are too hard even take time off to go to the hospital with you.

He could not bear to see you a little bit hurt, if you are not comfortable he will also feel the same.

3. When talking about the future

The person who wants to sleep with you may like you very much now, but this does not prevent him from liking someone else.

He just enjoys the freshness of being with you right now, chatting with you, traveling, and having fun.

But when you mention the future, he will be stammered and vague, not willing to answer you positively, and will not take the initiative to give you what commitment.

Just like the main character in “Love in a Fallen City” said, “I can’t promise you marriage, I can’t promise you to love, but I can promise you happiness”.

The person who wants to love you will be generous to introduce you to his friends and family, he will actively plan for your future and try to realize what you want, because of you, he is full of expectations and hope for the future.

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