The golden rule of interpersonal communication:

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4 min readJun 1, 2024

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1. Never let anyone around you know how or what you do to make money. Don’t worry about caring for your relatives, friends, or classmates.

2. Telling the truth will cost people’s lives. Don’t show your trump card. When people know you don’t have rice in your hand, they won’t even come to you. Proving to others that you are a good person is tantamount to automatically laying down your weapons and letting others slaughter you.

3. Few men regard appearance as capital. If in a woman’s world, age and appearance are the cruelest things, then in a man’s world, it’s money. A sense of security is always something you give yourself.

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4. The greatest absurdity in life is to dwell on bad people and bad things, which can drain all your positive energy. When you meet a bad person, get out in time. If you encounter a bad thing, stop your losses in time.

5. Anyone who prohibits you from being good is a bad person. Stay away from them. They have not tasted the taste of a beautiful life, and they do not allow you to taste it.

6. Seeing through complexity is ability, choosing simplicity is state.

7. What this world competes for is wisdom and brains, not who can move bricks faster.

8. The key to maintaining good interpersonal relationships does not lie in how friendly you are to others, but in the strength of your strength. People are generally more tolerant of the strong. Because whether others are willing to listen when a person speaks mainly depends on the strength and authority of the speaker, rather than the words themselves.

9. People mature because of the injuries they have suffered, not because of age.

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10. Don’t develop hobbies that cost money, but make making money your hobby. Confidence does not need to be cultivated. Once you have strength, you will naturally become confident.

11. Except for illness, the pain you feel is brought to you by your values, not real existence. If you change your mind, you will enter another world. You are your own God and your thoughts are everything.

12. There are only zero and countless times to reject others. When you sincerely tell others “Sorry, no” and take this step, you will find that rejection is so happy.

13. Having money does not necessarily mean you will be happy, but having no money will definitely not make you happy.

14. You may not succeed if you work hard, but you will definitely not succeed if you don’t work hard.

15. People with high IQ have no friends, and people with high EQ have no enemies.

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16. Only when you are at a low point can you clearly see how many people are really good to you. When the valley is low, no one is willing to provide help in times of need, but when the peak is high, everyone comes to provide the icing on the cake.

17. The world is gray. Because human nature is ugly and human nature is evil. Whatever is missing in life, it is found in movies and novels.

18. If you also like to explain to others, or always want to prove yourself, then you will invisibly reduce your own value. Never ask others why. Remember, the smarter a person is, the less they talk, the more majestic they are, the stronger their energy field, the more money they have.

19. Looking directly at human nature, collapsing three concepts, losing faith, walking on thin ice, struggling, accepting it calmly, neither sad nor happy, this is the whole process of growing up. When you no longer rely on emotions, no longer believe in morality, and no longer agree with equality, your heart will become truly strong.

20. The two most heartbreaking things in the world: Dad’s disappointed eyes and Mom’s envious words.

21. Promise is a perfect thing, but perfect things often do not become reality.

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