The mindset of worrying about gains and losses in love is a manifestation of women's concern.

3 min readNov 15

In a relationship, women generally fall into a deeper state, putting themselves in a state of worrying about gains and losses. However, such a state is not conducive to emotional development and may even cause harm to women. How do women feel about worrying about gains and losses in love?

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The mindset of being concerned about the benefits and drawbacks of love.

1. Fear

In the world of love, women will not feel much sense of security when they love deeply and get no response. And this sense of security will deepen over time, making her feel fearful in her heart. This situation will cause her to worry about gains and losses in her relationship with you.

2. Inferiority mentality

Although the world of love does not restrict anything and has no boundaries, there are restrictions and boundaries in reality. When two people are not in equal positions, their love will be more hindered, which will make one of them have an inferiority complex. Such a situation will also make people worry about gains and losses in love.

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Women are often concerned about the potential gains and losses in various aspects of their lives.

1. More clingy to you

Time will make people in love rely more and more on each other. For women, if the inner sense of security cannot be satisfied, they will be worried about gains and losses. And this will allow her to satisfy your worries in her own way, allowing her to rely on you.

2. I have low trust in you and will doubt your feelings.

Trust can be regarded as the foundation of relationships to a certain extent, and when such a foundation is not solid, it will affect the relationship between two people. When she worries about gains and losses in her relationship with you, it will reduce her trust in you to a certain extent and prompt her to doubt your behavior and feelings.

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People in love must know how to satisfy each other’s emotional needs so that their relationship can continue well. And when you love each other, you must know how to be more sensible and don’t draw a prison for yourself and force yourself to be restrained. It’s about knowing how to break through yourself, make yourself better, and meet the happiness you want.


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