The more capable people like to post these three kinds of posts on the Internet
The water is deep but the flow is slow, and the noble people are slow to speak.
The deeper the water, the gentler the water flow. Even if the water surface is rough and rough, the deep water still maintains a slow speed.
Excellent people tend to speak cautiously, don’t rush to express their opinions and don’t try to impress others, so they seem to speak slowly.
Shallow people often express themselves in these three ways in front of others or online posts.
01. The negative energy of resentment
There is a former colleague in the company who is nicknamed “the community grumbler.”
Looking at her social posts, her words are full of dissatisfaction with others and resentment towards life.
Early in the morning, I complained to the boss of the breakfast shop that his prices were too high; after the meeting, I complained that the boss was too demanding.
I was not understood; after getting off work, I posted another message saying that my friends didn’t care about me and didn’t understand me.
Her attitude was negative, her work was sloppy, her performance was always at the bottom, and she was fired within a few months.
Colleagues have similar impressions of her: “There’s nothing wrong with her, she just likes to complain too much.”
There is a Spanish proverb: “If you cry often, you cannot see the stars.”
This kind of person always feels that she is miserable, that life is unfair to her, and that she always complains about good and bad things.
Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and no one’s life is easy. Complaining about everything has no meaning except making your mood worse.
A truly strong person will not complain but will find ways to change, get himself out of trouble, and adjust his mentality to look at life optimistically.
02. Excessively showing off one’s achievements
“A person who is truly rich at heart never shows off everything he has. He never tells others what books he has read.
What kind of cars he has driven, where he has been, how many pieces of clothes he has, and what jewelry he has bought because he has no inferiority complex. “
People with low levels like to show off their teeth and show off their achievements. They frequently post on social media to show off their achievements and mention them repeatedly to the people around them.
People with a rich spiritual world do not need to belittle others to elevate themselves, nor do they need external recognition to satisfy their vanity.
“My job is mainly to climb the grid.”
“I am just a drop of water, not soapy water, and I cannot blow bubbles.”
People with high levels see through vanity, don’t care about vain fame, and don’t show off to the outside world.
Instead, live a low-key life, pursue the life you long for, enjoy quiet, be indifferent and open-minded, and live a happy life.
03. Show off your knowledge
There is a famous term in psychology called the “Dak Effect”.
In layman’s terms, the more ignorant a person is, the more he thinks he is smart, and the worst thing is that he does not know his ignorance.
When a person shows off his talent and knowledge everywhere, he reveals his shallowness and ignorance.
“Humility and an open face are noble features.”
The modest bamboo has lower-headed leaves, and the proud plum has no upward-facing flowers. All that is true and great is simplicity and humility.
Being low-key, expensive but not obvious, flashy but not dazzling, is the vision, the way to success, and the charm in human bones.
Don’t live in a fantasy and rely on showing off to cover up your inner shortcomings.
After all, the more you lack something, the more you want to show off.
I hope that each of us can realize what a good life we want is like.
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