The person who loves you the most is your father, and the loneliest person in the world is also your father

2bebetter
6 min readJun 1, 2024

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Father’s love refers to the love that a father gives to his children, allowing children to feel the warmth of a father’s love.

Father’s love is serious, strong, profound and profound. Father’s love is as great as mother’s love, but the way father expresses love is different.

From a man’s perspective, a father gives his children strength, independence, self-reliance, self-confidence, and tolerance, so that the children can feel a love that is different from a mother’s love.

The father’s reproach is intended to motivate his children, but sometimes it can backfire. Therefore, a combination of the two is the best idea and method.

You have been praising your mother since ancient times, so why are you talking about your father now? Only mother is good in the world, who can see my father crying?

She gave up all the hardships, carried heavy burdens, and endured humiliation to crawl forward. She shed all her body sweat for her son, and the woman hates him in her heart.

If the family situation is difficult to compare with others, mom will be by your side and dad will scold you. I am exhausted both mentally and physically and my life is about to end. My children only call me Mom when they come in!

In many people’s minds, a father is a calm or even taciturn character.

But in fact, every father is a big child, with an unyielding childlike innocence.

It’s just that due to various pressures in life, I can’t express this part of myself at will.

There is always an ideological and cognitive distance between children and parents.

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People often say: There is a horizontal gap at the age of three, which means that there are different understandings at the age of three. There are nearly ten horizontal gaps between a father and his child.

As a father, you should shorten the horizontal gap between you and your children. Only in this way can you communicate with your children better and be a competent father.

1. In this world, the most difficult person to understand is your father. While he educates you to be diligent and thrifty, he also secretly gives you pocket money.

2. He blames you for doing something wrong, but he can’t bear to have you blamed.

3. He never praises you for how great you are, but he is already so proud that he gets hurt inside!

4. He will never let you fall in love prematurely, but he hopes in his heart that you will have a happy family in the future.

5. In this world, the person who loves you the most but doesn’t express it is your father.

6. Who is willing to ride a horse for you? Who would rather hold the knife and fork for you? Who is willing to run around for you?

7. In this world, the person with the greatest pressure, the cruelest competition outside, and the biggest burden on his shoulders is dad.

8. The loneliest person in this world is dad.

9. Among the people around you, dad is the one who has experienced the most ups and downs, and the one who gets the least praise is dad.

10. Dad, in the days to come, I want you to hold my little hand,

Hold your big hand and accompany you all the way, stop and go.

A letter has been widely circulated on the Internet, and many fathers were deeply touched after reading it.

My son:

I write this memo to you based on three principles:

1. Life is full of blessings and misfortunes. No one knows how long he or she will live. Some things are better to be discussed earlier.

2. I am your father. If I don’t tell you, no one will tell you.

3. What this memo records is my experience gained through painful failure, which can save you a lot of mistakes in your growth.

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Here are the things you should remember in life:

1. Don’t mind too much about people who treat you badly. No one in your life is obligated to be nice to you, except me and your mother.

You must cherish and be grateful to those who treat you well.

2. No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is a must-have.

After understanding this point, even if you lose everything you love most in the world in the future, you should understand that it is not a big deal.

3. Life is short. You may be wasting your life today, but tomorrow you will find that your life is far away from you.

Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy life.

4. Love is just a feeling, and this feeling will change with time and mood.

If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently.

Let time wash away slowly, let the mind slowly settle, and your pain will slowly fade away.

Don’t look forward to the beauty of love too much, and don’t exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn.

5. Although many accomplished people have not received much education, it does not mean that they can be successful without studying hard.

The knowledge you learn is the weapon you have.

6. I will not ask you to support me for the rest of my life, and I will not support you for the rest of my life.

When you are old enough to be independent, my responsibility is over.

From now on, whether you take a bus or a Mercedes, you must be responsible for yourself.

7. How you treat others does not mean how others will treat you.

If you can’t see through this, it will only add unnecessary trouble to you.

8. I have been playing the Mark Six lottery for 26 years, and I am still broke. I have never even won the third prize.

This proves that people have to work hard to be developed. There is no free lunch in the world.

9. Relatives are only destined once. No matter how long you and I stay together in this life, you must cherish the time we spend together.

In the next life, whether we love or not, we will never meet again.

This letter is not only inspiring to read to my son, it is also suitable to read to everyone!

There are not many words, but it contain the fathers’ insights on life and their infinite love for their children. It is very touching!

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My dad is really my pride, not because of how talented he is, nor because he can make a lot of money or how powerful he is.

It’s that my father has been working hard here alone since he had nothing, and now he and his mother are living very well. He has never relied on the elderly.

No one helped me, and I never took advantage or deceived others.

He is a very steady, helpful, kind-hearted, and very honest person.

In my family, as long as dad is mentioned, I can guarantee that no one will say anything bad about dad.

He is such a person that makes everyone treat him very well.

In my impression, the father’s love that I can feel is really simple.

Every day before going to work, my father would gently kiss my forehead before I woke up.

Then I went to work. My father was really busy and hard at that time. He would leave early and come back late every day.

Often he goes out without us, and he doesn’t come back after we sleep with him. This goes on year after year.

Father’s love is like a mountain. Dad is the tree and the mountain in my heart.

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Now that my parents are getting older, I have to reflect on how much time I need to spend with them.

Dedicated to all the dads in the world, may they be healthy and safe forever!

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