The steps of a girl chasing a boy are roughly as follows:
- Be friends for some months;
- Flirting when the time is right;
- Hint him and let him break the window paper;
- Be together
(let’s explain step by step)
The first stage: first approach him like a friend.
Some girls who “girls chase boys” will directly “flirt” and “flirt” right from the start. It is true that due to hormones and freshness, it is very likely that a man will respond to you. But how long can it last? There are also some girls who “girls chase boys” who are of the “suicidal confession” school. They can’t chat, show themselves, or get along with each other patiently. They can only “care” and “confess”… Holding the belief of “either life or death”, they confessed before they even got along well. They thought this was the so-called “girl chasing boy”. They were wrong! Remember, if a girl chases a boy, she must start by being friends, whether this process is 2 weeks or 6 months. Because, truly high-quality, healthy, and long-lasting relationships are all based on “getting along well”, “having inner resonance”, and “understanding each other”.
The second stage: guiding flirting
The first step: is in-depth communication
The content of friends' and lovers’ chats is different, so if you want to make the relationship ambiguous, you have to talk about some intimate topics to make the chat in-depth. In-depth topics are to share each other’s feelings and thoughts, such as talking about the outlook on life, outlook on love, past experiences, love history, planning for love, and the relationship between each other.
The second step: Hints among friends
you need to carefully recall the content of your chat and grasp a detail he mentioned. For example, if he mentioned a point of view during the chat with you, you can refine this point of view and post it on Moments. Or he mentioned that he liked a certain song, a certain sentence, a certain book, or a certain movie. You can copy down and post your mood and pictures. For example, I met a boy before, and he said that he wanted to have a ragdoll cat. Then a few days later, I went to a cat cafe and took pictures of him playing with the cat. Then he came to chat with me privately. How did I reply to him at that time? Of course, I played dumb. “Oh, yes, I forgot that you like cats too. We can go together next time.”
Step 3: Make a physical contact
The effect of words is always not as direct as physical actions, so if you have the opportunity to date him, you must use physical contact to tease him. For example, when you are shopping together, you see a milk tea shop and buy a cup first, pretending to tie your hair or shoelaces, and let him help you get the milk tea for a while, then directly hold his hand holding the milk tea with your hand, and stretch your head over to take a sip. The date is over for the day, he is going home, you wave to him to come over, he will be stupid, huh? At this time, get close to his face and pretend to kiss him on the face, and then immediately flash to his ear and say: “Thank you for letting me spend a pleasant night. Walk away quickly after saying that, otherwise you won’t be able to leave…
The third stage: Guide boys to express their love feelings
What should you do if the boy you like keeps flirting with you but is reluctant to make it clear? Don’t worry, I will slowly teach you three tricks, that will help him!
The first trick: make friends out of nothing.
Find an opportunity to meet face-to-face. Assume that your situation and his situation are like your best friend and the boy she is flirting with. Then ask him, “I have a best friend who has been troubled recently. She has been flirting with the boy she likes for two months, but the boy just won’t confess his love. You are a boy and you understand boys’ psychology best. Help her analyze it.
The second trick: make him jealous
and create a few rivals for him to make him jealous. He will be eager to establish a relationship with you. I will teach you a trick. Just post photos of yourself in a cafe, restaurant, or exhibition. Only you appear in the photo, but the person taking the photo is also there. For example, you can see the dishes or Wine glasses. If he likes you at this time, he will ask you “Who did you go out with”. Please continue to give him an ambiguous reply “Well, we are friends, but why are you curious about this”. The
The third trick: Retreat in advance
If the first two tricks don’t work, it means that the boy is not shy to confess to you, but he has not thought it through or plans to keep fish. At this time, no matter how many hints you give, it will be meaningless. Then there is only one last trick at this time, which is to retreat to advance. But I am not asking you to break up with the boy directly, block him, or cut off contact. You still have to reply when he talks to you, but don’t take the initiative to start a topic. If he asks you out, you have to refuse, but you have to refuse with a smile. You have to say “I also want to go out with you, but I have to study recently. You see, you are so outstanding, I also want to work hard to catch up with you.” Believe me, after a few times, he will go crazy, and at this time you can sit down with him and have a good talk about the two of you.
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