The three most cherished things in life, many people have missed and regretted for the rest of their lives…

4 min readJul 31, 2024

We have been looking back all our lives. When we take a step, we have to look back. When we look back, we will inevitably have some regrets. Many times, we always think that happiness is far away, in the future that can be pursued.

Later I discovered that the people I hugged, the hands I held, the songs I sang, the tears I shed, the people I loved, the so-called past, were happiness. On countless nights, we have all experienced the words we have said, the phone calls we have made, the people we have missed, the tears we have shed… the visible or invisible touches, and then with time, everything has become an eternity.

There is a song that says: We all miss the past, only when we lose it do we know how to cherish it. The past can only remain in memory, and may eventually disappear over time. We are looking forward to the future, but we can never predict it. Therefore, all we can grasp is letting go, only the present, and only seizing the present. , Only in this way can we not regret yesterday and regret tomorrow. In this life, we must grasp these three things no matter what, and we must cherish them.

1. Cherish time.

Time is money. We have heard this sentence impatiently, but do we truly cherish time? I play mobile phones and games to kill time every day. I always feel that time passes so slowly. I think of various ways to kill time. You don’t have to kill time. Time is quietly making you grow old.

Tomorrow comes tomorrow, and there are so many tomorrows. We often feel that time is the cheapest thing, but if you don’t cherish every minute and every second you spend now, sooner or later you will regret it. After all, nothing is worth an inch of money. Buy time.

The prime years will never come again, and it will be difficult for one day to come again; encourage them in time, as time waits for no one. In this short life, whether we live a mediocre life or a wonderful and leisurely life depends on our attitude towards time. You have to know that people who waste time are also wasting their time. Only when you know how to cherish time will time give you the best feedback.

2. Cherish fate.

The most wonderful thing in life is fate, and the most rare thing is fate. In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet each other, and it is even harder to get to know each other. But precisely because of this, every person and every relationship that appears in our lives is more worthy of our careful treatment and careful protection.

The encounters between people are arranged by God. Every person who appears in your world is worth cherishing, especially those who are good to you, can guide you, and lead the way for you.

We often encounter this kind of people who pass by our world in a hurry, teach us a lesson, and then suddenly disappear. Therefore, even the friend who is sitting next to you now, maybe the next second will suddenly be gone. Cherish fate, especially the hard-won friendship and love between people. Because some people never miss it once they miss it.

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3. Cherish blessings.

In fact, everything we have is luck. We came to this world naked and left naked, so everything we have now is our blessing.

Many people will complain about life and complain that their life is not happy enough. God will not send all the suffering to you. Life is not easy for everyone. People who like to complain often feel that they have been let down too much by life. However, they forget how rare a blessing it is to live a healthy and safe life. At the end of the day, life may not be as good as we expect, but it’s also not as bad as we imagine.

All living beings, everyone is the same, they will experience their suffering and difficulties, and will also reap their joy and happiness. There are gains and losses, which is called life; being able to grasp it is a blessing.