The Ultimate Level of Awkwardness with the Opposite Sex

2bebetter
3 min readMay 10, 2024

In the emotional world, ambiguity is a subtle and fascinating state. It is somewhere between friendship and love, full of speculation, expectation, and uncertainty.

And if you are separated, it is the highest state of ambiguity between the opposite sex. It can make people want to stop and feel itchy.

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If you stay away, it means keeping a certain distance but getting closer from time to time.

This distance makes the other person feel your mystery and attraction, stimulating their curiosity and desire to explore.

When you maintain a distant relationship with the opposite sex, they will constantly guess your thoughts and want to know more about you.

This ambiguous distance can be physical or psychological.

You can be physical without being overly intimate, but convey your interest through subtle body language. A smile, a look, and a gentle touch can make the other person feel your presence and attention.

Psychologically, you can maintain a certain degree of independence and not reveal your emotions easily, but you can also give the other person some hints and warmth at the appropriate time.

The key to staying away is to have a good sense of proportion.

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