Confidence comes from expectations for the future
In the darkness, as long as there is a little light, it will make you burst into tears. On the way forward, you will inevitably encounter various setbacks. Especially when you work hard but get nothing, you will feel a sense of powerlessness.
This feeling of powerlessness will destroy your fighting spirit and belief. At this time, you must stop and feel the power of the moment with your heart. For example, suppose you feel disappointed or even desperate about the current situation. In that case, you should stop thinking about the future, return to life, and live every minute and every second of the present. After you have regained your composure, think about how to restart your life.
A person’s confidence comes from expectations and expectations for the future. As the people say, living is for some kind of hope. If there is no hope, there will be even less motivation in life. Looking forward to the future is not a bad thing, it’s just that your expectations are in the wrong direction and you don’t get the results you want.
Society is cruel, and only those who have never been in society will naively believe that all society is good and kind-hearted. Many young people have suffered a lot in society and lamented: society has too many routines and I want to go back to the countryside.
Regarding what society is, someone once compared it this way: when you are hungry, some people will give you half of the steamed buns. This is friendship. Some people will let you eat the steamed buns first. This is love. They will give you all the steamed buns. This is family affection. Some people will hide the steamed buns and tell you that they are hungry too. This is society.
Society has always been like this. What we have to do is to strengthen our principles and insist on doing what we should do. Even if you are not treated gently by the world, don’t belittle yourself. You have to believe that as long as you keep working hard, your happiness will never be absent.
As long as you become stronger, the world will be better
Some people like to say things like “The wish will never come true”, “good luck will never come to me”, etc. Such people will not come true, because the life you describe is your life, so you must pay great attention to your language. What you often say will become reality unknowingly.
Some people are not looking forward to a better future, but are worried that worse things will happen in the future. I have shared with you before that autosuggestion will be implanted in the subconscious mind, and the subconscious mind will make your thoughts become reality.
So instead of describing a bad life, describe a good life. You have to shift from worrying to longing for good things to happen. As soon as you start to change the way you think, your situation will change accordingly.
The ups and downs in life are normal, and the suffering in life will not disappear just because you escape or compromise. Only by developing a strong will over the years, doing your best to develop yourself, and improving your ability to solve problems can you be fearless of the hardships of the world and redeem yourself thousands of times in difficult situations. In the final analysis, only when you become stronger can your life and the world become better.
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