These five ways a man chats with you show that he doesn’t love you “at all”!
Some girls always struggle with one issue over and over again, tossing and turning, that is — “Do boys like them or not?”
Is the answer to this question that difficult to figure out? Not necessarily. Sometimes, it is just because we are in it that we become obsessed with the authorities.
Try to step out and observe and analyze with a calm mind, and the answer will be obvious.
Today I will teach you a particularly useful WeChat self-checking technique to test how much a man loves you.
As long as you analyze your WeChat chat records, you can know whether he loves you or not.
1. “Reincarnation” chat
If you chat with a boy, always be very positive and reply to his messages quickly. But it always takes a long, long time for him to reply to you, sometimes even several days before he replies to you.
Then this is a typical “reincarnation” chat — you reply to his message in seconds, and he replies to your message in reincarnation.
Of course, everyone is busy sometimes, especially if a boy is very good, then he may devote a lot of time to study and career, so sometimes he will inevitably reply when you send him a message. Slower.
But if he always delays for a long time every time he replies to your messages, and sometimes even takes a day or two to reply to you, then there is no doubt that his investment in you is very limited, and the extent of his love for you is also limited. It’s obvious.
But one thing to note is that it doesn’t mean that a boy is slow to reply to your messages, which means he doesn’t love you. Don’t be like some girls. When a boy doesn’t reply to you for more than ten minutes or an hour or two, he will get entangled in all kinds of things. All kinds of doubts about whether boys don’t love me.
What I’m talking about is that if a boy doesn’t reply to you for a long time, sometimes even a day or two, and this frequency of replies has become the norm, this is a sign that the boy doesn’t love you.
2. “A Thousand Years of Waiting” Chat
In addition to the length of time a boy takes to reply to your messages, the frequency with which he actively contacts you is also one of the important indicators for assessing whether he loves you.
If you chat with a boy, you always take the initiative to start a topic, and every time you take the initiative to talk to him, he responds to you.
And the number of times he takes the initiative to chat with you is very small, basically “waiting once in a thousand years.” Then he must not love you enough.
So, take out your mobile phone, look through the chat history between you and him, check the date, and see if it is always you who starts the conversation every time.
Under normal circumstances, it should be almost half and half between two people. Even if a boy likes you more and you are in a higher position in the relationship, then it should be the boy who takes the initiative more often.
So, to see if a boy doesn’t love you, just see if he always chats with you in a “wait it once in a thousand years” interaction.
3. “Cherish words like gold” chat
Some boys always cherish words like gold when chatting with girls, as if one more word will kill them.
This kind of boy usually has three behaviors when chatting with girls:
Opening words are short
Every time he takes the initiative to talk to you, his words are always very short, either “Are you there?” or “What are you doing?” Sometimes even after sending you a message, if you talk to him again, he will never hear from you and will never reply to you. .
Guys like this are usually casting a wide net. Maybe when he sent this message to you, he also sent it to many other girls, just to see who is interested in him and who will invest more value in him.
If he meets a girl he is more interested in and replies to him, then he will naturally be more willing to chat with that girl, and will naturally ignore you.
You send a “short essay” but he replies “keywords”
There are also some boys who, although they won’t “cast a wide net”, will treat you like a fisherman. But in the process of chatting, the degree of slackness is also unbearable.
You chatted with him excitedly and sent him a long message, which was almost as long as a “short essay”. But what he replied to you was only two or three words, as concise as keywords.
Some people say that the number of words a person replies to you is directly proportional to his love for you. This sentence sometimes makes sense.
4. Perfunctory reply with emoticon pack
There is another kind of reply, he doesn’t even bother to type even the hyphen, no matter what you say to him, he will reply to you with an emoticon.
You tell him that something happened today that made you feel so sad. He replies to you:
If you tell him that the weather is getting colder and you should remember to put on more clothes, he will reply:
For him, expressions are everything, because even typing a word for you would be too troublesome for him. You asked him how much he loves you. Then count the number of words he replies to you.
So if you want to know if a boy loves you, then open your chat history and see if the page is completely occupied by white dialog boxes, with only a few green ones.
5. “The best cold open king style” chat
There is another type of boy who responds to you on time and does not use emoticons to deal with you. However, he always makes the situation awkward and is often silent when you chat with him.
Every time you start a chat, it is a particularly good topic, but he always refuses to pick it up and often chats to death in one second.
You look at his circle of friends and know that he recently went abroad to play, and then you ask him, how was he? I’ve been to XX place too. It’s… very fun and the food is very delicious. Have you been there?
Then he replies to you: Yeah, okay. Didn’t go yet.
You know he also likes Taylor Swift and went to Taylor Swift’s concert. So you said to him: Wow, you also went to Jay Chou’s concert? I went there that day too!
He will say to you: Oh, haha.
These replies can feel a cool breeze blowing across the screen, making people feel a chill.
Yes, don’t doubt it, the reason why he is so incapable of chatting is just because he doesn’t like you.
There is a saying that goes well, to see if a person loves you, don’t look at what he says, but what he has done for you.
But if a person is not even willing to invest in the value of “talking”, and even talks about your laziness, then what do you expect him to do for you?
Girls, when you meet such a boy, please stop worrying and entangled.
Since it is obvious that he is not interested in you, then why should we lose our dignity and beg for mercy?
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